hi
You do this by following the entire process, of how attraction takes places naturally when two people meet. I'm sure you know by now about the phases of attraction:
- A1 (Attract 1) – Opening
- A2 (Attract 2) – Female to male interest (generating attraction)
- A3 (Attract 3) – Male to female interest (qualify the target in order to show reasons for your attraction to her)
- C1 (Comfort 1) – Comfort and Connection with your target
- C2 (Comfort 2) – Trust with the girl you are seducing
- C3 (Comfort 3) – Intimacy with the girl you are picking up
- S1 (Seduction 1) – Arousal
- S2 (Seduction 2) – LMR (Last Minute Resistance)
- S3 (Seduction 3) – Sex
Comfort is really the bulk of the interaction. It's all the time that you spend together, hanging out, and getting to know each other before you actually have sex. This is where you need to believe in yourself, and have that sense of entitlement, so that you don't self sabotage.
Most people think of this as just dating, but there are obviously things you can do get the girl more into you, and keep things sexually escalating.
Now to ensure that she will want to see you again after some initial attraction, yes it is very important that you reach a deeper level of connection in order for her to feel compelled to see you again. Building commonalities, and exploring through both yours, and her personal stories, how you have things in common can be very useful in this process. It is equally important that both feel a strong sense of comfort, and trust around you, while also allowing herself to get more sexually excited.
Too much arousal too early on, where the logistics are not in your favor could actually work against you. So you see it's not just one simple tool that you can apply. There is a vast amount I could talk about regarding Comfort.
Ideally this is where you own personal life experiences will come into play. She should be getting to know the real you. Now that doesn't mean you can leverage flirtatious routines, as that is definitely what the game is about ;)
