Become A Master at Day Game
Hi Guys
New York is insane. Nowhere else in the world will you find such a volume or diversity of girls. I've had a lot of adventures there and it's actually where I met my current girlfriend.The great thing about Day Game is that there's much less competition on a street or in a café than in a bar or nightclub.
It also suits guys who don't like loud or boozy environments, or guys who are just too busy to go out a lot but see a ton of beautiful women during the daytime.
I'm dating a girl right now who reminds me why I worked so hard on my Day Game the last few years. I'm reminded why I went out, day after day, perfecting my daytime dating skills until I felt totally confident and comfortable going up to a stranger, charming her and taking her home with me.
She is the kind of girl who gets hit on most days of her life, has a constant stream of guys chasing her and wanting to do her favors, and recently got approached by a couple of TV producers to make a show about her.
Today I want to tell you guys how to meet and attract a girl in the daytime. But let's go over some of the basics right now.
Approaching
For most daytime situations, you want to use a direct approach. Try something like:
- "Excuse me, I just saw you walking past and I had to tell you that you look absolutely stunning. What's your name?"
Attraction
Ask a couple of questions after you've introduced yourself to get the ball rolling, like "What are you doing today?" or "What do you do for a living?" But, make sure you make plenty of statements in between those questions that tell her cool, interesting things about you.When most guys approach women, they fire question after question at her in a desperate attempt to build rapport.
No.
Don't be that guy!But if you don't have them, lead the conversation onto topics that you know a lot about. If she's a lawyer and you know nothing about being a lawyer, change the topic to something else: "Okay, cool. What do you do in your spare time?"
Qualification
If you've been talking to her for a couple of minutes in the daytime and she's not making excuses to leave, you can pretty much assume she's attracted to you. At this point, you need to do some qualification.
Pick out a few things you've noticed about her personality as you've been talking to her and weave a couple of compliments into the conversation. Nothing too major at this stage. Keep it simple, e.g. "I really like that you do yoga. It's great to meet people who take care of themselves physically as well as mentally."
Giving her a couple of compliments like that makes her feel good for stopping to talk to you. It also communicates to her that this is a pick up and not just idle chatter to make a new friend, which will allow you to ask her out without it seeming awkward.
Logistics
Assuming you met her while she was on her way somewhere, she will probably have somewhere else she has to be soon. So, you need to think about setting up a date so you can meet her again.
Don't ask for her phone number. That's not good enough and is what she expects from most guys.
Tell her that you've enjoyed talking with her and would like to talk with her more, then suggest a coffee or a drink sometime. If she agrees, discuss a good time and place for both of you to meet - ideally later that day or if not, within the next couple of days.
If a woman won't commit to that, she's probably not very interested in you and you should move on and approach some more women. There are 3.5 billion women on this planet. Don't stress out about any individual one!
Well thats it Guy's.
I hope that helps.
As always if you have any question or comments I'd luv to hear from you.
I wish you all only the BEST,
Vision
PS Thank you Soul
