coming off as a player? where did I go wrong?

I seek your help in this one my friends.
A few months ago this woman stepped into my life....I really really liked from the 1st moment I saw her of course didn't show her that,played it cool....She is my age 26, a high profile beautiful woman who gets rained down by attention everywhere she goes and she's rather spoiled!..so I was extra careful in implementing all of what I've learned right,and mind you I don't consider myself a pro,but rather that I can handle myself well with women out there,and I got good sense of humor and very high confidence.

I did trigger lots of interest from her side...within the only few times we met briefly,and because she works in a conference arrangement company,she travels a lot so most of the action was on brief calls and lots of txts.

here are some points:
-She would play hard to get, I could sense it and would pursue when necessary but while being cocky and funny as DDenagelo says,showing interest then back off a little and let her come to me..."beauty isn't a rare commodity,u got more to show for?" "is that how you get by in life?"
-She would give me shit tests and I would handle them the "correct" way, like she wanna talk on the phone for long and I have to go..because you meet ppl to get to talk to them..when she says things like I'm not impressing her with so and so I say "is that you are used to? ppl seeking to impress u?" as if she's a little brat.
-I would tease her.
-I would show her high confidence.
-But I couldn't move forward, she wouldn't make it happen for us to meet, I got too stuck in that phase...it started taking too long,and I overused these techniques I'v been working on...I had a hard time not turning boring or dull because this Phase we're in was too extended, I knew if we would meet or bump into each other I'll break out of this txt/phone phase but it never happened.

here is the juicy part:
I realized that although she is still interested at this point, She actually thinks that I'm a player! or a gamer! as if she was threatened, she feared letting me into her life!!
seriously how do you deal with that? when a woman raise her shield way way up because she had sensed the "distinguished" "standing out of herds of other men" guy!.....I'm good at the technique but when it started making me appear like a player/gamer or someone who she thinks would play her or break her heart..I just didn't know how to handle that!

She started ignoring..more ignoring over time, I showed a stronger more aggressive interest again showed her that I really liked to know her better and this is taking too long,I would state this in a confident way so I would make sure I don't appear needy..stayed playful and triggered laughter in her till the very last moment,thinking it would balance things out on appearing as a player....nope didn't work,it may even have backfired I'm not sure,I showed her willingness to walk away once before while I was in the middle of this mess and it worked on her, but then at this time I showed willingness to walk away,but it didn't work this time...she totally ignored me and now completely I walked away..

it's been a couple of weeks now, and I know it's over...I'm hurting because I wanted to do the right thing with Her,isn't the point of being good in what we do is to get the women we want? so that one woman comes along you should be able to play it right and smooth? and despite what happened I still think I'm good at this..which makes it harder for me to swallow the fact that I messed up along the way...
plus the fact that I think she liked me or even still does!!
I really really like her,think about her every day and wish I could hold her..and it makes me want to cry! of course I'm only telling this to you guys...I don't tell even my best friends of how attached I was to her....

Mind you I got 2 other women in my life, didn't limit myself or dedicate myself to her...because we never got to any real relationship....but God I wanted Her..still do...

guys gimme your thoughts plz, I always know how to help ppl out but when it came to my problem my mind goes blank!!

thanks!