HB She came to know me and gave me her facebook but on the msn she never says anything.
Hey guys First of all happy 2010
I want to explain first of all that a girl came up to me one night when i was not in the mood of going out but i went out since a good friend of mine asked me to so i did.
Well i went out with him and he knows lots of women since he is a photographer of models and stuf like that well we got stopped every time from people sayin hi to him and he was introducing to me all the girls, Well got to one grup that 1 of the girls started to talk to me meanwhile my mate mas talking to her frieand and she started to ask for my name lots of idis but since i was in a really down mood and tired i dient realize like asking me once and once again were we were going to go and telling me were teregoing to go i said it depens on my mate i went out for him.
What im geting at is 1 month later on neew year i find the frieand that my mate was talking to nad i asked about he frieand and she said is that her and i said yes started talking to her 1st mistake i said i was really tierd that night i shouldent of said that i know anyway a saif to her your not leaving her with out giving me your msn or something and gave me her facebook on facebook i asked her msn she gave it to me no probs thing is she talks to me on facebooks but on the msn never why is that happening?
What i did i sent her an MP on face saying that im going to take her off my msn since i dont need the msn of people that i dont talk to and still havent got an reply.
If I got what you were saying correctly..yes you kinda messed up in the end there man, don't need the msn of ppl u don't talk to?? really? how Cool and layed back and self reliant..and non needy and...smooth...confident...would she think of you when you tell her THAT?! u know what I'm saying.. :)
I don't blame you..your mind is constantly thinking of her,her reactions,her thinking what she is doing or saying,and waiting for her positive reply on what you said..and that is not good for you, you need an outter neutral perspective to get it right, and I've been there on the same boat you are now..
I won't say you messed it up and just move on...no I'm a fighter and I think you got nothing to lose,do give it your best effort and then see if it works out or not...here are some points that come to my mind..
1) your friend the photographer, is Gold stick to that guy man he'll bring lots of women into your life...I wish I had a friend like that instead of the miserable bastards I hang out with..(I'm also a bit miserable myself but keep that a secret).
2)Ignore her for a total of 5 days, I don't know when you will read this, but make sure it is 5 days since you ignored her...why? because shorter would make you needy and creepy thinking of her constantly..Longer would make her forget about u, u need to strike it when it's still warm and you are not totally out of her life..
3)you strike back with a FB msg, smth lite funny and cool..what comes to my mind is in the terms of
,without a hi or any introduction, "and I thought when I threatened to delete you off msn you would come running begging me not to..and then ask me out for my number,which is the logical thing to do :P "
See what that msg triggers in her, if she does start talking back even smth all..and if you see her name in your inbox,plz just plz relax..lay back with a smile..and start playing your cards right..be cool..smooth, confident, funny, those are what makes her interested in u..being angry for not seeing her in ur msn,and being a grinned guy with no smile and layed back attitude doesnt!!...and when msn is mentioned u know what to say? I rarely ever use msn! she needs to sense that you have a full life, you are too busy to clinge on a pc screen and wait for some msn activity..
go for it man..what are you waiting for?
