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Hey Guys,

A while back when I was getting good at the GAME,  I found myself dating girls for the first time in my life. It was new to me and when I got my first beautiful girlfriend I wanted to hold onto her desperately, what happened? She dumped me! 

I was lucky enough to take a BOOTCAMP with Gambler who gave me some solid advice so read on my friends

Now, I have learnt how to keep a girl, and how to be in control (in a nice way!) in a relationship and the only way I can get dumped is if I want to!  Once you catch a great girl, how do you hold onto her?
1. Be Solid in Your Reality
The natural tendency when we get a great girl is that we want to change ourselves so that she will like us more. We will get the music she likes, eat the food she likes, do the things she likes. In short, we show that we are not strong in our realities. Keep your tastes and interests and do not bend them for your woman, it’s a big turn off. Even if she says she wants you to change, she’d get bored with you if you actually did.
2. Have a Purpose and an Interesting Life
Women like men with ambition and with a purpose other than them. You must have a life that has stuff going on. You might think it’s nice for her if you dump all your friends and give up all your hobbies for her, but that will just make her get bored of you. An attractive male has a purpose and a great life that the woman becomes a part of. He doesn’t just throw everything out of the window once a girl comes on the scene.3. Don’t Give Yourself 100% too Early
Men’s attraction is faster in the early stages, you will fall in love first in most cases. If you tell her that you love her and want to be with her forever or any variation or similar communication that tells her “you’ve got me, I’m yours”, you are making a mistake. It’s romantic, we want to say it, but the woman wants a challenge, she wants to have you 90% but never 100%. After a few months, you have more leeway but still be a bit careful and adjust things if you think you are losing her.
4. Don’t Change the Things She Likes
She was attracted to a certain person when she met you, maybe you were confident and alpha, maybe you were a bit difficult to get. Whatever it was, she liked it, don’t change completely and become a wuss just because you fall for her.
5. Don’t Chase Her
If you feel you are losing her, the natural tendency is to chase her more, compliment her more, buy her more stuff. Don’t! Do the opposite, go and meet other women, direct your energy to other things and let her come after you again. This is push-pull and it is very effective!

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As always I wish you the BEST
Visionwink

PS Thanks Gambler


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Great advice Vision, I have always wondered how do you keep them after you finally get them. For some reason once I totally fall for a girl I turn into a major wuss bag and of course every single one of them dumped me and it makes sense to me now, even though at the time I had no idea why.

If I ever get another girl attracted to me again I will keep this advice in mind, my confidence is at an all time low right now. I joined eHarm and got absolutely nothing in 3 months. My biggest problem is I have no girl friends or guy friends to hang out with and do PUA. I have friends but they are all married or guys you would not want to bring with you to pick up on girls.

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