How To Over Come Appraoch Anxiety

Hey Guys,
 
I'm gettin ready to head out tonight to SARGE it up. But before I do I wanted to drop some knowledge on you.
 
I would probably say my Approach anxiety was much worse than average, my fear was paralysing and I just couldn’t get past it. Now I have found a way to get past it slowly but surely. Taking small small steps. I’m all for faking it til you make it, but for some people they just cant get past that. So Ive created a list after much experimenting to see what set off my AA the least. After I do each one of these things for a certain time I got bored doing it all the time, that was my cue to move it up a notch.
 
1.Go to a Starbucks, or any coffee shop when it isn’t too busy. You’ll notice people seem to hug the windows and walls, none wants to be the guy sitting right in the middle on their own. Sit down and notice how many people don’t actually care that you feel uncomfortable.
FRAME: Anyone looking at you is envious of your confidence.
2.Walk down the street, you can do this with your headphones in or whatever, and hold the eye contact of every girl until they look away. You can do this in bars and restaurants too.
FRAME: Remember if they hold it they are interested, if they don’t then they are still interested but don’t have the confidence to approach you.
3.Walk down the street, hold the eye contact of every girl and then say “Hi”, if they hold your eye contact pull a stupid face, stick your tongue out or something. When I started doing this the buzz was similar to what I got from approaching.
FRAME: If they don’t laugh they are shy or aren’t interesting enough for you to be socialising with, think about it.
4.After they have laughed or reacted at all to your silly face or whatever, go over/stop them and start talking to them.
FRAME: they already have a good opinion of you, you have nothing to lose, its very difficult to change a girls first impression of you.
 
Well thats it now GO OUT and practice
I wish you all the BEST
Vision
 
PS Thanks Megadirt