6 Rules To Better Dating
This is a collection of dating rules that I always stick to in order to get the most out of my dating life:
1.) Look good. When you look good, you feel good, and you "do good". Make sure that you feel as secure as possible about your looks. The last thing you need is having to worry about the length of your fingernails, or how you smell. This means take care of basic hygiene as well as dressing in clean clothes. Its crazy how many guys underestimate this part.
2.) Forget about failure. The best womanizers that I've interviewed/talked to still face rejections to this day. You need to stop letting the fear of rejection cripple you mentally. Understand that it is a part of the game, and that if you persevere there will be a girl out there who is right for you. This is the dating rule that you need to make sure to remember.
3.) Always talk to women. I talk to women on the bus, at the grocery store, subway, mall, etc. This means that I'm in a social mood 90% of the time. When you're always cracking jokes you're bound to get a TON of opportunities. This leads to a bunch of extra phone numbers, and a couple of extra dates per week. On a long term basis this type of "extra effort" will make a huge difference.
4.) Ignore the 3 day calling rule. This is the worst piece of dating advice. Beautiful women get their number asked for a lot more than you can imagine. The worst thing you can do is let her forget about who you are before calling. The reason this rule exists is because guys come off as really needy in their interaction with a woman, therefore they need the 3 days to let her think that they aren't needy. If you come off as a cool dude while you're talking to her there is absolutely no reason not to call on the next day.
5.) Lead. This is the most important dating rule on the list. Leading causes the girl to get attracted to you on a very fundamental level. Leaders have no problems in their dating lives because women are naturally attracted to them. If you're not a leader right now, you need to read a couple of books on leadership and start practicing it in your daily life.
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A great book on becoming the type of guy that leads well is Become an Alpha Male by John Alexander. This is a quality that will help you out in areas of your life totally unrelated to dating. 6.) Have something going for yourself. This is something that a lot of guys ignore. I have a lot of stuff that I do which makes me an interesting person (travel, wrestling, painting, exercising, etc). So although dating is important for me, I would enjoy life a lot even if I wouldn't be going out with 3 different girls every week. This makes girls more attracted because they understand that you don't derive your value from them. Everyone wants to hang out with a high value people. By being a more complete person you can become that high value person. The above points have helped me out greatly in my dating life, and I'm sure they can do the same for you if you APPLY these concepts. Understanding them is one thing, but you will only get the true benefits when you apply them in your dating life. As always guys I wish you the BEST Vision |
