A GREAT QUESTION!!! Has This Ever Happened To You?

Hey Guy's
 
Has this ever happened to you?
 
My best friend Jeff related this story to me and I could relate automatically to what he was saying.  Because when I first started this ALWAYS happened to me when I saw a BEAUTIFUL GIRL.

Something keeps happening here in NYC -- I catch a woman's attention, and then I don't know what to say.  

Two quick examples:
 
1) I got off the subway at 23rd and 7th last evening, about 8:00 o'clock.  A girl was standing on the corner, waiting for someone. She had on beautiful, brightly colored high heels, a long skirt with a diagonal waist, and a jaunty way of standing.  

The moment I saw her, I accidentally blurted out "Sex in the City".
 
She heard me, laughed, and looked right at me with a cute expression.  But I had no followup.  The only thing that came to mind was "you're sexy" -- which doesn't seem to cut it.
 
So I stood there for about two minutes, like a shy jerk. Then her cell phone rang, and her "date" appeared (in his baggy jeans, sneakers, T-shirt, baseball hat, cigarette, and slumped shoulders). And they walked off into the moonlight.  O well.. I wish could think of something to say.
 
2) Even simpler, on the subway going to work this morning, a girl caught my eye (as we were getting on).  I really liked her, but a) she had on ear phones, and b) she yawned with her
mouth open.  Several times.
 
Well, my only question here is, what do you say to an attractive girl who seems interested, but has ear phones on?  
Or what do YOU do?
  
>>>>>> MY ANSWER:

Okay. Let's go.

I think you're approaching this from a skewed perspective. You're looking for the magical words that will make the chicks swoon, but FUNDAMENTALLY, it's not WORDS that are gonna do it.

What do you do when she has on the earphones? Get her attentionand motion for her to remove them. Then start a conversation. Period.

Specific lines or "routines" are not the answer here.

Routines are not meant to attract as much as they are to hook a girls'attention in a high stimulus environment.  

Attraction is caused by your voice and eye contact and humor and dominance.  The only criteria that routines fit in terms of attraction is standing out and being different (an
evolutionary advantage.)  

Perhaps you should try doing your pickups with pure interview style talk for a month as an exercise to isolate your non-verbal channels.  It will be slow going at first but you will
learn a lot from doing this.

Just converse normally. Ask her where she's from. Talk aboutthe weather. Normal, boring stuff. As you do this, fine tune your voice, facial expressions, body language, tone and frame control accordingly until you're getting attraction consistently.

This is the place to START.

Then and only then will the lines and tactics begin to work like "magic."

Again, it will be slow going at first, but you need to be able to think on your feet before you start blending in the ninjamoves.

Try it out, let me know how it works
 
So what do you guy's think? I'd like to hear from you.
 
I wish you all the BEST.
Vision