5 Ways To Have Power Over Women
Hey Guys
Most men do a crazy thing as soon as a good-looking woman enters the picture - they give away all their power and status and become just another chump. We’ve all done it - we chase her around, change our plans to fit in with her schedule, give up our interests and friends. Rather than maintain the things that might make us attractive, we give them all up and as we focus all their attention on the woman. And, thing is, the more attractive the girl is the more we are tempted to give up.
This is not the way to do things.
Since it’s common male behaviour during the chase, women have got bored with it. They’re fed up with being given all the decision-making power. Women like to be presented with a challenge. They want to work for a man. They don’t want to think that all you have on your plate is them.
They want a challenge, and they don’t want to think that all you have is them. A feminine woman wants a masculine man, not a supplicating wimp. Modern men are less attractive because they don’t have manly qualities.
These are the rules you need to follow to separate yourself from the herd and make yourself a more attractive guy:
1. Take the Lead
“Can I have your number?” “Are you free on Wednesday?” “How about Tuesday?” “What time?” “What would you like to do?” Asking these questions transfers the decision-making power from you to her and they are the kinds of questions that get asked before the first date. Not good. Try these kinds of questions instead: “I’m hungry, let’s get something to eat”. “We should hang out, give me your number.” “I’m going to watch a film, you should come.” Can you see the difference? There’s no supplication here, is there? You’re not even really asking - you’re leading her politely, giving her an opportunity to join you in your fun life.
2. Have Other Passions
Make sure that you have interests. Make sure you have friends that you care about. Don’t abandon all that when you meet an attractive girl. They are part of the equation that makes you attractive in the first place.
3. Have A Purpose
Be ambitious. Have goals. Know what you’re doing in life. People who wander around aimlessly or give away everything for a woman are not attractive. Decisive people on a mission are attractive. Be one.
4. Be High Status
I was reading a scientific report the other day and it confirmed something I’ve known for ages: men go for looks, women go for status. It’s primal: women look for a man who can provide a secure environment for their children. That doesn’t mean you have to be loaded. It means you should be confident, strong-willed, prepared to walk away, and able to set the agenda. High status males turn women on. Be one.
5. Don’t Change Who You Are
This is really important. You need to be confident enough in yourself not to change anything. If she says she doesn’t like something about you - your music, fashion sense, taste in films, whatever - listen to her point-of-view but don’t change your whole life based on. If you agree with her criticism, make changes. If
you don’t, you shouldn’t change a thing. Half of the fun for a woman is trying to change you into her “dream man.” She wants the challenge of taming you and changing you - but it is just that, the challenge, that she likes. She’ll get bored very easily if you roll over without a fight.
So there we have it - five tips that will help you maintain your status and, more importantly, your attractiveness to your target.
Thats it as always I luv to hear feedback from all of you.
I wish you the BEST
Vision
PS Thanks Gambler
I have a Question on this.
Last week I went to a strip club.(coin night,any drink you want for any coin youhave in your pocket,intended to get wasted and I did)
But while there I got a dance from a stripper and before the dance I did some DHV's. During the dance things got heated,1 there is no touching and I started touching going moderately far with her,2. I got an extra dance and at the end of it she said."No one has ever made me feel that way during a dance,we have to meet up outside of here" I said for sure...Then she pulled me aside and said she was going to find me and give me her number. So i went back to my seat then my buddy wanted to leave giving me about 20 minutes to get it.I started looking for her,which I think was bad.I found her talking to another stripper and both were crying ike something sad happened. I kinda stood there and she saw me and told me to come over.I told her I was going and kinda added my empathy to the situation.Her friend said bye and she gave me a hug and kinda said something about not wanting me to leave.
At that point leaving I felt that I looked needy.Should I have just left and if I ran into her before I leave good if not so what.
And did I get worked by a hired gun or should I go back and try.I've actually hung out with 4 strippers outside their work since here in Arizona. Made out with two hooked one up with my buddy. last one kinda got mad when i was negging her and said she had a bad attitude towards guys.this is the only one im unsure of.She was def. a 10 btw.
Hey! Ineedattention,
Sorry it took me awhile to get back with you directly but this past month I have been insanely busy.
Anyway lets get to your question.
First things first, I love to drink when I go out but the one thing I have noticed when I'm at the bar or at the club and I have had alot to drink my GAME is not that sharp.
I find it difficult to recall things and I'm a lot more slower with my come backs. I hate sounding like a member of the 'WET BLANKET CLUB'
So Enough said about drinking and GAMING.
Lets see.
You got a dance from a stripper you had a lot of KINO you had and EXTRA DANCE and at the end of it she said. "No one has ever made me feel that way during a dance,we have to meet up outside of here"
I think I got it.
When I was just starting out with PICK UP I dated a stripper but I completely "F it up"
and hear why.
I treated her like a stripper from the time I met her to the time we spilt up. I bought her stuff and I help her up on a pedestal.
Sounds GREAT. Right?
Wrong!!!!!
If I had treated her like I treat every girl that I go out with now we would still be going out.
Maybe! lol
Strippers are in the club to make a living that why they call it 'STRIPPING'. Now you did not say if you payed for a dance I'm going to assume that you did.
Well then she performed a service for you and she made you happy. So she did her job.
Don't feel bad that you did not get her number look at like practice for your STRIPPER GAME.
Hear what I would do next time. I call it my '5 STEP APPROACH TO PICKING UP A STRIPPER'
Step #1- Fit an image
Typically strippers go for a certain personality in men who are edgy and live an exciting life. That's why you see a lot of strippers going for rock and roll singers.
Now I know you're probably an average guy so you might not have the "rocker" look. But you can increase your chances with a stripper by having the "right look". What you can do is go watch a few popular cover bands in your area and see how the lead singers dress. Then try to matching that image.
While it's not absolutely necessary to dress like a rock guy, you should try to create an image about yourself that will make yourself stand out from your average guy.
Step #2- Pick your right time to go
If you're serious about trying to pick up a stripper, you have to stand out from the crowd. One of the best ways to do this is to go during the right time.
Try to pick nights where business is slow and she has time to talk. This works because there will be less men vying for her affection.
Step #3- Bring a female friend
Strippers LOVE having other women around.
If you can bring an attractive female with you to the club, you'll definitely attract her attention.
Typcially strippers like to compete for men's attention. If your female friend is hot enough, you'll validate yourself by having her with you. By doing this, a stripper will want to work hard for your attention.
Step #4- Don't be like other guys
Your actions inside the club will dictate how a stripper will perceive you. A stripper will be attracted to you if you appear to not care about her affections.
This means sitting away from the main stage area where the girls are dancing, NOT tipping the dancers, tipping the bartender WELL, avoiding the standard "stripper services", and engaging other people in conversations.
The more you can do to enlist allies with the people around you (especially the bartender), the more you'll increase your value in her eyes.
Step #5- Be interesting
When you see a stripper you particularly like, engage her in a conversation. Your goal during this discussion is to be a mysterious person who is both charming and engaging.
By acting in a friendly but aloof manner, you'll become a prize to her. Basically since you're not kissing her butt, she'll wonder why you're not attracted to her. As a result, she'll start to work for your attention.
If you work your conversation well, you can easily get her number and set up an encounter outside the club. Then it's just a matter of using your attraction skills to build towards intimacy.
If you play your cards right and use the attraction building techniques I described in this hear, you'll find it easy to pick up a stripper.
I hope that helps
I wish you the BEST
Vision
Any advice on how to tell the difference between real IOI's from a hired gun like a stripper, and the fake ones that they have learned to give out in order to extract more money from you? Or can you just take them all as real, and move forward as usual?
thanks for the stripper tips. I've always wanted to pull a hired gun!'
SS
One thing i've been trying to avoid is going back frequently I see it as bad.one stripper had talked about guys talking down to her and she said her come back was always well "you're the one coming here" doesnt say alot about the guy.for Step two I think you just have to ask about the place first and find the perfect night. But i do agree slow nights are way better.
