How To Be Really Attractive

Hey Guys,
 
Last week I spoke about having an ‘Edge’ and gave you a couple different things that you can do to develop your own ‘Edge.’ Spending time in front of the mirror and taking pictures of you.  Many of the struggles that you will experience while doing these exercises stem from your internal belief system.  There are several different things that you can do which are easy and extremely effective and will help to overcome the personal blocks. 
 
Here are the common struggles that guys have throughout the process of finding there edge and what you can do to overcome them.
 
If you look pail in the mirror or in pictures; get a tan
If you think you have a basic hair cut; look at pictures in a magazine and find a hair cut that you think would look good on you. Take it to a good stylist and tell him/her that you want something a little trendy and hip.  Step outside your comfort zone.
If you think you look fat in the pictures: get on a hard core workout program. You don’t need to have to have a six pack of abs to make yourself feel better, you just need to know that you are actually taking action and doing something about it which will make you feel great. 
If you think you are ugly; focus on the good qualities that you do have and express gratitude for them. (Remember you are only ugly if you say you are)
If you have acne; go to the Dr. and ask him what he recommends
If your hair is thinning; go to your Dr. and ask him what would work best for you to thicken it up.
If you have been clean shaving for your whole life; find pictures of a guy that you think looks good with facial hair and experiment with different styles. Clean shaving is out; having a little scruff is hot.
If you have bushy eye brows or a unibrow; Pluck them or wax them
If you are sick of seeing the same old thing when you look into the mirror and want a change try something radical; Get earnings or some sort of facial piercing if your work permits it.  
 
This is not a one size fits all as we are all different and have completely different looks.

Here is a hint; everyone that is truly great with women is always changing his look, he has several different looks. Why?  It’s because it is all about the feeling, the feeling of being sexy.  It’s human nature to get bored with the same old thing over and over so when you are looking into the mirror every day and have the same look that you had 10yrs ago it is pretty hard to appreciate what you see.  It is also extremely hard to believe that you are actually sexy when you have the same look as you did 10yrs ago when you had no self-esteem and no women.  Don’t be afraid to think outside the box and try different things, experiment with different looks and most of all have fun with it. 
 
I hope this helps you to take your GAME to the next level.
 
I wish you the BEST,
Vision
 
PS Thanks Cory