Creating A Frame

Hey Guy's

I wanted to take some time today to explain why you need to put a women into a FRAME if you want to  GET THE GIRL

This week I heard PUA Sinn (AKA John and for you who don't know is a really great PUA and has worked for Mystery and recently started his own business)

His stuff is a little advance for beginners but for those of you who have been in the GAME for a awhile will get a lot of knowledge from this material.

I like to think about the overall frames of each phase of an interaction, because it gives some basic goals for the communication we're trying to have with the girl.

So with that said, let's look at the 5 Frames of Comfort.

 Cooperative
Comfort is first and foremost cooperative. Remember by this point, there is an obvious attraction between you and the girl. She's also worked a little bit for your attention through the proper use of qualification. By now it's time for both of you guys to be working towards the overall goal of hooking up.

Emotional
Comfort is all about sharing emotions and experiences. Now is the time to be really aware of what I like to call the emotional temperature of the situation. Is the situation hot and passionate? Is it sweet and loving? Is it flat? You have to know what emotions the girl is having in comfort, in order to gauge what emotions she needs to feel in order to move forward.

Sexual
It's important to demonstrate sexual interest in comfort. In fact Captain Jack I even like to alternate every qualifying compliment with a sexualized one. You need to show her you're interested in her as a man is interested in a woman. Not like a shopping buddy or someone who's going to tag along as you go to a club.

Time Distorting
In comfort we want to make a woman feel like she has known us forever. The more we can do things like using multiple venues, childhood regressions etc... The more a woman will feel like she's known us long enough sleep with us.

Connection Based
Now when I say the words connection based, a lot of guys assume I mean talking about some sort of intense emotional connection between the two of you based on destiny. A connection simply means there is an overall relationship between a series of events. This means a connection is simply the theme that holds your comfort together. The connection could be adventure based, sexual, emotional or any other number of things.

Now let's examine the 3 Frames of Seduction.

 Teasing
This is huge. Sexual push/pull is one of the biggest secrets in the seduction universe. You want to arouse and deny consistently until the girl is so turned on she actually does the escalation herself.

 Sexual Rapport
The frame of sexual rapport refers to treating the girl as a lover before she actually has become one. This is huge! You can assume sexual rapport at a verbal, physical and social level.

Controlled Passion
The best way I've ever thought of seduction is as a controlled passion. You need to convey that you are struggling to remain in control of yourself because of her. But you are still always in control, which allows her to tempt you. Women love playing the temptress.
 
Thats it GUY's. I hope it helps
As always, I wish you the BEST

Vision