Why You Should Get Blown Out Of Set By A Girl
Hey Guys,
WOW!!!!!!! Now that's a long title for this short article. "WHY YOU SHOULD GET BLOWN OUT OF SET BE A GIRL."
Anyway hear why.
I was out the past 2 nights and as usual I'm out SARGING my ass off with my WINGS but the last 2 nights out I have not been in the most positve mood and I had a couple really rough days at work.
Hey SHIT HAPPENS
So now I'm out at my local haunt in NYC and I'm going into set after set and either the SETS are not HOOKING or I'm getting really bad reponses and in two cases I'm being told by some "classy girls "(LOL) to "FUCK OFF!"
Now normally if this were back in my AFC days I would get really get pissed off or I would say "F it" and just go home and cry myself to sleep saying "I will never be good with women."
But hear the reason I stuck it out.
I actually started to LEARN MORE when a SET went bad.
I know, I know what does that mean.
Well let me lay some knowledge on you. We as guys have a tendency when thing are going along really smoothly in our live, to become a little lazy.
I know I do.
And not lazy in the sense like I going to be a "sloth" like in the 7 Deadly Sins, but I stop challanging myself on how far I can push myself to make things even better. You see when your faced with a challange weather it be PICK UP or a thing negitive in your life, we have a choice to RISE ABOVE the obstacles that confront us. In doing so we actually learn from our experinces and in learning we are able to adapt our behavior as to not let that same experince happen again. As some genius once said "Stupidy is doing the samething over and over and expecting a different result."
So now lets get back to the situation above what do I do when I am getting BLOWN out of SET by a GIRL.
1. I never ever take it personally.
You see guy's there are millions and millions of women out there in the world waiting to meet their next ROCKSTAR. When you beleive that there is an abundance of women and that you have abundance in your life it become apparent that you don't have to GIVE A DAM if some girl that you just met likes you or not.
2. Know you own value.
You guy's have termendous value to offer to people because you are all unique and have qualties that make you special. Beleive in that, not just in your head but in your heart and will go far with your life.
3. Life is to short
Hey guys as MYSTERY says you have "23,000 days to live" so get out there you don't get those day back.
4. Learning
Every time you get blown out of set you should be able to step away and learn something that you could have done differently.
You will find when your able to do this you can see exactly what works and what doesn't work in your own GAME, and this is were your game wii get better and it you will start you on your path to becomming a PUA.
Now hear were coaching can be very helpful. Get some training. J Dog is excellent at working with guys to improve there GAME but if you can't get to him go on the web and start to find someone who teach you.
Guys this is a SKILL SET anyone can learn it.
Listen guys you would not learn how to be a MIX MARTIAL ARTIST by just reading a book. You could do all the mix martial arts in the world but with out the proper training and technique you are going to get your ASS KICKED before you ever got good. The same is true with PICKUP you can short cut at least 6 months to a year off your GAME with a good coach.
5. Have FUN!!!!
Guy's PICK UP is suppose to be FUN so enjoy the processes.
So that it.
As always I love to hear from you.
I wish you the BEST
Vision
