How To Talk In The Club
Hey Guys,
Have you ever found yourself in a CLUB having trouble communicating over the loud, repetitive sounds of the night club. If you're not used to the noise it can be hard to think, let alone communicate!
This exercise is an easy way for any guy and his wing to overcome the deafening noise of the nightclub.
Level 1: Get Comfortable in the Noise
First you'll need a stereo that can really blast some music (the stereo in your car will work for the Level 1 exercise.) Put on something loud, anything from bumping club music to grinding death metal will do. Blast the music. Stand about 10 ft away from a friend and simply talk about anything for 5 to 10 minutes.
Get comfortable with thinking and speaking over loud music. It doesn't matter at this point if the other person understands what you are saying. What matters is that you can keep on track and tell a story all the way through, over the music.
Repeat this exercise 4 times over the course ofa week and you will find yourself to be much more comfortable around loud music.
Level 2: Storytelling and Listening
Write up, find, or memorize a story that your partner has never heard before. Stand across from each other and crank the music up. One of you will be the storyteller and the other will be the listener. The storyteller will try to communicate his story over the blasting music. The listener will try to figure out what the story is all about.
Once the storyteller is finished telling his tale, turn the music down. Now, the listener will explain what he believes the story was all about. If his version of the story is way off, then the storyteller needs to change how he expresses his story.
The storyteller and listener should discuss ways that you could use your body language and
tonality to more accurately tell the story. Use your hands, make gestures, or change your facial expressions to match feelings or events in the story. Emphasize specific words that are important to the meaning of the story. Find parts of the story where you can throw in some kino. Tell the story again. Then change roles.
There are two lessons for this exercise. The first lesson is how to communicate an entire
story to a group of people in a loud night club so that the listeners get the point.
The second lesson is how to listen to and interpret a story in a loud environment. This is
especially important when a girl is telling you a story. The more you can hear, the better your response could be.
One of the worst things you can do in a noisy club is to "peck" when you can't hear what
someone is saying. When you can't hear someone, most guys will lean in closer to the speaker.
Some men even think this is a positive form of kino because they can use the noise as an excuse to get close to the lady. However, by repeatedly leaning in, you resemble a ravenous chicken, pecking at feed in the chicken coop. It looks bad and it conveys lower value.
Resist the urge to peck. If you can't hear what someone says, stand tall and simply ask them to repeat it. Do not lean forward. I have a friend who lost the hearing in one of his ears as a result of firearms training, he says. "I just point to my ear, explain that I have difficulty hearing, and ask the woman to speak up. But my posture never changes. I remain in a confident, upright, and powerful posture."
That it, anyway give it try if you do you will find your GAME excellerating to the next level
As always.
I wish you all the BEST
Vision
Vision thanks there is a drill like this in rules of the game too for people who havent read it yet.
Last night I had these exact problems. The music was so loud that I couldn't hear what the girls were saying and they couldn't hear me. I guess I'm just gonna have it to rely on more body language, gestures and facial expressions. Definitely gonna talk to my wing-men and practice with them so that we can get better at this and give each other pointers.
Thanks
Vision you should change your name to visionary cuz thats what you are...
Hey Cyrius140184,
Body languge and eye contact are are so imporatant in loud clubs.
But what loud clubs are great for is is building KINO and SEDUCTION it's soooo loud it give you a chance to have the girl to lean into you. (This only happens once you have attraction)
Check out my article on dance floor game and eye contact in the mean time.
It should help you excellerate your GAME.
Let me know how it works
I wish you the BEST.
Vision
Thanks Vision for the reply. Funny enough the dance floor is where I attract girls the most. Opening was always a problem for me but I am getting better everytime I go out now. I always relied on being able to dance quite well but combining it with other simple techniques for example, rolling off, eye contact and smiling and more advanced techniques like kino escalation, I am now getting better at attracting girls.
I rolled off after spending about 10-15 minutes with a Brazilian girl and teaching her some Salsa moves and building kino last weekend, and the funny thing was that she saw me talking to other girls and it made her jealous. Next minute shes jumping on the first guy showing her interest and starts kissing him right in front of the me and the girl I was talking to who was in a 2 set. It was very interesting to observe. I didn't really care to be honest.
Its amazing how you continuously want to challenge yourself when you discover how the art of pick-up works and now I feel like dance floor game is too easy. I'm striving to get better at just approaching girls that are in sets chilling as this will make me have to come up with openers, and learn to communicate and have that alpha-male status within the set.
