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rookie - member
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Hi JDog,

Last night I started an online binging session going through all the various PUA / Game / "Enter description here" websites including those of David DeAngelo, Neil Strauss, Mystery Method, RSD, Gambler PUA Training, Ross Jeffries, Venutian Arts etc and finally came across yours today and after a thorough review of its content just wanted to say that so far yours is easily my favorite,  I think you have the most personable and helpful approach with regards to your content.   All the other sites offer useful content and are very appreciated too, but they have too much of this Late Night Infomercial / Used Car Salesman / Instant Gratification Lingo and jargon and pop ups and bullshit, while your site does not (or not nearly as much anyway :P).  I guess I feel what you share and write is driven primarily by what seems at least like a genuine intent or sense of satisfaction from helping out other guys as opposed to exploiting an opportunity to make a quick buck. 

My quick favorites -

1) Your video on Stack Routines, not because its about Stack Routines but because it was useful to see the interaction between two bro's on the topic of game in a way where you were listening and figuring things out as you went, as opposed to seeming like a know it all and spewing canned phrases.  It was genuine - like two guys over a beer - as opposed to a consumer pre-packaged and pre-planned video.  The actual examples in the video were also extremely helpful, particulary hearing how an opener is actually relayed or how a transition is relayed.

2) Using Opinion Openers without saying "I need a female perspective/opinion blah blah blah".  Solid :)

3) The Articles on Connecting and Having Leverage on Yourself.  I started my internet binge with the intent of finding specific openers / routines etc as I kept thinking that it was my like of material that stopped me from approaching strangers, but the more I read your stream of thought postings (although summaries and bullet points are more helpful :P) the more I realized that  "getting" and really grasping and achieving Inner Game and Confidence is a lot more valuable than learning Outer Game.  It's like once you have Inner Game you will naturally and automatically find yourself developing Outer Game, but not so much so the otherway around.  I.e. I know a couple of guys who've memorized a ton of routines and actually use them well, but they don't have any real confidence on the inside and they get their validation from successful routines.    Your comment on the problem of gaming "at" women as opposed to connecting with women as being a problem of PUA-status was also a great insigh.  

4) Being "An Expert" Opener.  A+ for that one.

Anyway, just thought to share some views and give you props.  Bottom line is I find what you share to be a lot deeper and thoughtful and natural - i.e. you don't try to can your content in a way that comes off as superior to the rest of us or consumer packaged.  That, combined with the specific and practical openers, lines, routines, etc that you're sharing makes that website one I'm definitely going to follow on a regular basis and recommend to some of my buddies.

Finally, I'm an Arab living in the UAE so props on your site reaching the Middle East!
 
Keep up the good work.
 
O.J.

regular - founder
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Thanks O.J. for all your kind words!

I'm chuffed that I have friends reading my website in the Middle East, and finding ways to incorporate the advice into your local culture. Makes me what to write a whole bunch.. recently 110% of my time has been spent on my engineering career. Towards the end of the year I should get a month or two break to write more.

All the best.. J!

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