How To Get Her Phone Number
Hey Guy's
This is it.
It’s where the rubber meets the road. It’s where the boys get seperated from the men.
Going for the number… Here’s how you do it.
As always I try to get you guy's the most up to date info on PICK UP Training so when I heard Gambler (FAMOUS PUA) talk about how easy it is to get a girls number. My ear perked up becasue it really easy so hear what you do...................
Now listen, I’ve been in the game long enough to see where most guys go wrong. Nine times out of ten, guys talk nervously for ten minutes and then stutter out a request for the girl’s number. It doesn’t work and they get blown out. It is possible to make a connection by small-talking someone, but it takes ages.
There are better ways to do it. Try this. The next time you are talking to a hot girl, keep in mind that you should be directing the conversation towards the goal of getting her number at all times. Those kinds of conversations are based around connections and common interests.
Here are a few questions that I might ask if I was trying to make a connection. Try them out.
- What does she do when she isn’t working?
- How does she spend her time?
- What food does she like?
- What places does she like to go to in the evening?
- Is she a party girl?
- Does she like the arts?
- What is something she would like to do but hasn’t yet (e.g. salsa class)?
Me: What places do you like to go in the evening?
Her: I like club/bar X.
Me: Cool, its good there, have you ever been to club Y?
Her: Yeah/No
Me: Well, me and some friends are going there on X day, you should
come.
Her: Yeah/okay
You: Excellent, give me your number.
Or try this one:
Me: What do you like to do when you aren’t working?
Her: I like to go to the theatre/exhibitions/museums/ballet.
Me: Have you been to that new show/exhibition/whatever?
Her: No
Me: Me neither, we should go
Her: Okay, sure.
Me: Great, give me your number.
Do you see what both have in common? Neither conversation features me directly asking for her phone number. By having her agree to do something with me, it’s absolutely natural that she should want to give me her number. In fact, it wouldn’t be unusual for the girl to offer me her number without me asking. It just seems like the thing for her to do. Smooth, right?
Now, I’m not saying it will always be easy to find a connection - you might be too busy to do it, or, for whatever reason, the conversation isn’t flowing like the ones above. In those cases, pull out your trusty all-purpose number close. This one:
Me: You’re cool/It’s interesting talking to you, we should hang out.
Her: Yeah.
Me: What are you doing on Thursday?
Her: Blah. Here’s my number…
Getting the meeting
Even after getting a number, it can be difficult to convert that into a date or another meeting. Here’s what to do!
As she is giving you her number, take her phone and enter yours into the memory. That way, she’ll know it is you when you call. Make sure you’ve arranged something you can do together as described above. And, most importantly, arrange a date there and then. If you’ve already arranged a date, she will be thinking about it. When you call her she will be expecting it. She’ll take the call rather than screening it with voicemail and then binning your message.
There we have it - the do’s and don’ts of getting phone numbers.
Wow it really is that easy.
Well guys give me some feedback and if you have any question I'd luv to hear from you.
As always I wish you all the BEST
Vision
