How do you attract a girl on the dance floor
especially she dances with you but doesnt talk to you. This target of mine is part of my social circle but i barely see and talk to her. One night, i saw her in the bar with her group of friends.She had her own group of friends, i had my own group. but some of my friends know her friends.
I DHV'd by having my female friend flirt with me and I would play flirt back.etc
on the dance floor, my promoter friend grabbed her to the dance floor and to dance with us. I approached her and danced with her for a long time. there was some opportunity that i could talked to her like appreciated her,"finally a good dancer in the club.etc" or some push pull "finally a good dancer in the club...i think ;)"
but i guess i enjoyed the moment too much that i just wanted to dance with her all night so she just left out of nowhere. im guessin she's not the type of girl that talks in the club and have to build attraction out of the club when our social friends having a get together in low volume places.
Next time, if i do encounter something like that, what ways can i be diffrent from other guys she dances with in the club. should i be the first one to roll-off before her? I was also scared negging her on the dance floor.
I hope someone who is good in dance game would answer, I am a good dancer, and that would be a good information for me... though, I don't find much trouble with girls dancing already on the dance floor, but before and after, much to learn, started to take things seriosuly... (finally admitting that I do have a problem lol)
Cheers,
Arsalan
my advice is that unless u can dance as good as michael jackson or usher i would stay away from the dance floor do to the fact is thats a whole differnt game the fact is that women love to stay around the dance floor because it very loud so they feel portected by the music just like the guyfrinds around her social circle next time do the same as did before but open her off the dance floor or while ur female friend is with u. having a pivot with u is a very useful and strong tool for pick up the dance floor is a dangerous place unless u can seriously DHV on the dance floor u will DLV
I hope this helps u
Vlad
Hey Rockstar,
Wow!!!!!!! This is a great question and it took some time for me to figure out how to handle DANCE FLOOR GAME.
It a little tricky at first but with some practice you can become the MAC DADDY of PUA DANCE FLOOR GAME.
But you will need to know a couple of things before you can do this.
First the good news.
You don't need to be a GREAT DANCER or even that a GOOD DANCER but you should learn one dance move in particular so I want you first to watch the following Youtube clips:
OK that should get you started on what to do when your on the DANCE FLOOR.
Next let look at the SOCIAL DYNAMICS of what going on with you when your out with your friends and she is out with her friends in your SOCIAL CIRCLE.
I personally hate gaming in my social circle because it can ruin some really good friendships and there are MILLIONS and MILLIONS of women out there that are dying to meet you. But if you are really into into this girl you will need to know a couple of things.
First rule is that you are on the DANCE FLOOR you can't really talk or run material because its to LOUD an she is there to DANCE and get her GRIND on. So now that you know that DON'T try to have a indepth conversation while your dancing save that for when she is done or were you can build comfort with her some place quite.
Now hear the best part of dance floor game. When you get GOOD AT IT. You will be able to escaulate attration very quickly, which usally means you will be MAKINGOUT and FEELING HER UP within a realitely short period of time.
Second you have to make sure that when you are in the CLUB and the music's kicking that you are comming in at a higher energy level then the girls. Rmember,they are look for fun and a good time that the reason they are at the CLUB and you are going to be "all that and a bag of chips" with your energy level at a higher state.
Third it a GREAT IDEA to build your social proof before you go up and appraoch her.
You can do this in a couple different ways. You should be SMILING and HIGH FIVING as many people in the club as soon as you walk in and telling girls HAPPY BIRTHDAY!" I know that sounds weird but it works and hears why.
Know one no you you when you walk into a club so they are not aware of youor social value. The best way that you increase your social value with everyone there is to be the MAN. So when you doing this to everyone it appears that you know everybody even through you don't. So, other people see this an they go. "OMG!!!! He must be imporant."
"GET IT"
This one thing is HUGE and most guys who don't know the game well enough completely over look this.
LAST THING don't be the CREEPY, NEEDY GUY.
If there is one thing that women hate it a SOCIAL LEACH or VAMPIRER.
So if you are dancing with the girl and she into you, role off occasionally and dance with some other hot chick or rule over and talk to your friends.
By doing this correctly you will actually build more attraction.
So there you GO!
If you have questions or feedback, I would enjoy hearing from you.
I wish only the BEST.
Vision
Vision Thank you soooo much.
