How To Kiss Close (And GET IT)
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First things first…
Most guys wait hours and hours and then lunge in for the first kiss. They get rejected because the girl is totally confused and, probably, freaked out. Other guys wait for the perfect movie moment to go for the kiss.
Perfect movie moments don’t exist and the kiss never comes. To guarantee you get the kiss, you need to do it smoothly.
But how?
Here’s how:
1. In the ten minutes as you work up to the lip-lock, you should be touching the imminent recipient in increasingly more sensual ways.
Here’s how I do it.
First of all, I touch her arm for emphasis when I’m talking. Then, I touch her hand - a really good way is to take it when you look at a piece of jewellery she’s wearing.
Then I touch her hair - I ask her if it’s her natural colour, if she wears it up, if she’s ever cut it short or used to have it long… It doesn’t really matter what you say, just run your fingers through her hair. If she lets you do that, you’re IN.
You’re money. You can kiss her now. Stop reading. Kiss her. Do it. If you’re still not sure, smell her hair.
Then take her hand while you talk. If you have been carefully escalating your kino, she won’t mind this. Don’t stare at her hand, just take it. You’re the man here, right? - act like it. Squeeze her hand. If she squeezes back, this is another big kiss-tell. No girl squeezes back if she isn’t ready to kiss.
Here’s where you break out the sexual nerve gas: stop talking, tilt your head and look at her. Stare into her eyes. You can tell whether she’s comfortable. If she is, kiss her.
You’ll occasionally have bumps on the road, but you can get over them. What if she turns her face away when you try to kiss her? Kiss her cheek instead and then move onto her neck! She will usually turn around and kiss your lips. Most guys consider this to be a rejection and give up. DON’T! It isn’t rejection - she’s just testing you. Don’t back away. If you brush it aside in a manly fashion, she’ll respect you more and be turned on into the bargain.
Bonus!
Touching the girl in the lead-up to a kiss is really important. But it’s not all you should be doing. Establish a sexual vibe during the conversation too and you’ll have a powerful weapon. You’ll be unstoppable. Adding a sexual vibe makes sure the girl sees you as a potential lover rather than a friendly hairdresser. And this is
how you do it:
2. Establishing a sexual vibe as you escalate the physical contact
- More intense eye contact
- Slower, smoother, deeper voice
- Look at her in a sexual way, start to look at her lips as well as her eyes and see if she reciprocates. If she does she is imagining kissing you. Go for it.
When a girl wants to kiss you:
- She squeezes your hand
- She looks at your lips
- She touches your chest instead of arm
- She is comfortable with hard eye contact even when no one is speaking
Promise me one thing - promise me you’ll go out and try it. Okay?
Well there you go guy's
I'd like to hear your comments and feedback.
I wish you all the BEST
Vision
I loved your comment on how to handle the cheek kiss, top marks there hahaha.
money. I got turned on just reading it - can't wait to break this out next time I'm in set!
alright, so this is what happen. My friends knew a couple of girls that were cool. I hanged around with one of them, I teased her a bit about her clothing, and then I asked her if she wanted to kiss me later on the road after I gave her high fives( I already did the palm test on her friend last week) and she said no, and before that I asked her if she had a phone number and she said she had a boyfriend ( thats when I pulled out the "I'm not interested in boyfriend" scenario. but I think it was a little too late. I still dont know what I'm doing wrong. I truly suck at getting chicks
Peru, it sounds like you did not build enough (or any?) attraction. AND you have to qualify her before you can kiss her (let her give you a reason to like her other than looks).
I would study up on some pickup stuff - read all of JDog's articles, and get a copy of Magic Bullets from Love Systems, or Revelation from Mystery (venutian arts) - or something similar. Read up on how the progression from meeting to getting in bed with a girl goes. This is extremely basic and stripped down, but it goes a bit like this:
meet
build her attraction to you
get her to qualify herself that she is special
build comfort and rapport with her
get her in bed
Each of those steps has specific things you need to do, and ways to treat her. During the whole thing, you have to physically escalate from 'social touching' up to kissing and beyond, do venue changes and get ok with her friends (usually).
When you say you 'suck' at getting chicks, it is not you - it is just a lack of knowledge. We all sucked at getting chicks at one point. The most powerful thing the pickup community has taught me is how to know where I am with a female - if she is attracted to me, and what to do to make it happen. The above 5 steps are a roadmap to seduction, once you know where you are, it is much easier to know how to get to where you want to be. Now you need to fill in the details of that road map, first by reading the basics of how social dynamics, attraction and girls' minds work. Then, you have to learn how to trigger the right emotions in her - you do this by saying and doing exactly what the gurus lay out for you, and doing it over and over with hundreds of girls until you get it down pat.
Put your mind to it, and you can be a decent pickup artist in six months. Sounds like a lot of work, but it is fun! And what better reward could you ask for than the ability to lay hot chicks?!
thanks dude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, helped me a lot, dayum man i cant believe i just wasted 350 dollars on mysterys revelation cds just now :0. it sounds worth it though, cant wait!!!
I been reading Jdogs articles too, cant wait for his new blogs...this website is so fuckin aawsome.
