Sarging in small towns
Hey guys, I know that there is already a thread about a similar topic, but I had the urge to be more specific about sarging in small town. To give you some insights:
-The town I live in has about 47 250 people.
-I have just 3 or 4 sargable locations and at least one of them is very small and as a night club, the music is too loud to play it indirect.
-When I go out, I meet the same group of people regularly.
-From Monday to Thursday
you meet students people mostly and then from Friday to Sunday you're more likely to meet working people.
-25% (estimation) of the people I get to know, know someone in my friend circle.
So I have roughly 1 year and a half of PU experience and as my adaptation goes with where I live in, I nearly just sarge social circle in my city (outside my city I sarge freely). I sense that if I'm going to sarge like I were in L.A., I would lose more then I would win. With that I mean, we all have a reputation and if I get some nasty blowouts or even come of weird how would it impact my situation? In my opinion I would saturate the venues very quickly, not letting me game there anymore.
The question is. Is it more a limiting believe or is it normal, considering the situation, to think not to sarge the way we are told to?
Same in my town. what I do is do everything discretely. When you "scoop" thats what my friends and I call it just try to recon her out dont start high fiving friends or have her telling anyone where she is going. You dont really need to be high profile in small towns just high enough.
I pick one bar I go to everynight Bartenders and bouncers know me and some nights im just sociable.But everynight there is a girl there you've never seen before friend from out of town,just moved here something find that girl and talk to her. Girls you see alot become friends with them because instant social value when you are out.
I have acquired 3 groups of girls that I can meet at the bar when I go without wingmen and hangout with and bring girls into the group to meet them.
