HELP ANYONE!!..need a pep talk
First off over the last 2 months I've finished some reading and saw great improvement in my game. I went out got a two set isolated and got a kiss close. got numbers its like things are falling into place.
But yesterday I started hanging out with a marine corps buddy of mine who got home from afghanistan for getting into a squabble with an non commisioned officer. HE told me he met a girl on a facebook like site and was finally going to meet her and he wanted me to tag along to the mall to meet her at her job there.
We did and shes an asian about a 6.But I instantly feel for her though,I started gaming.And she was responding shit testing me like crazy and I loved every second of it. She asked me to go out to the bar with them and i replied "i dunno if i wanna grace you with my presence" but i really wanted to.We ended up not going cuz his car crapped out on him.Pissed me off.
I know shes way above him he's eating out her hands.at one point she told him to shut up so she could listen to one of my stories as he tried butting in,and he just took it.all day she was putting him down and his replies were shes firey and he could take it. I really want to see how things go with me and her and besides he was making out with another gurl 2 hours later.By night she shit tested him and said she had a brain tumor and was dying in 3 months and bitched about how much she hated life.So he told her he couldnt stand her drama hung up on her and told me he was done. she then started sending him pictures of her in some hot outfits which he showed to me and went through the whole sex talk with her.When i saw the pics I started crying.CRYING I still am. I even looked her up on facebook and was about to add her.
My options now go behind his back fuck up a good friendship or fucking kill myself.I just want her sooo bad my heart hurts,ive been thinking about her all day and dont think i can stop.
If hes a good friend, you've got to go with the "Bros before Hos" rule. (I know girls are not Hos, but it rhyms...).
If you are still struggling, I remember this piece of advice: "If you are wrestling with your feelings over 1 girl, go out and pickup 5 more girls then see if she is still that special flower". If she is, go for it, if not, well you've just met 5 girls.
Im in your boat, so to speak. Im just starting out. So you now have a choice: Get hung up on 1 girl or use it as an excuse to go out and continue your pickup adventures. Which sounds like the better option?
thanks actually after sleeping on it shes really ugly I just really liked our conversation and really wanted to finish,I know she wasnt the one but i wanted her to become one...But i figure whatever happens with her and my buddy happens. Pushing things would make my friendship go down.
And for me the game is a mix between finding the one and becoming more social and ive been achieving alot.Over the past two months I went from 21 phone numbers mostly family to 47 now being girls I met at the bar and hang out with to girls i talk to n plan to come up with an event for.
