Your 3 Keys To Making A Lasting Impression

Hey Guys,

I hope you know by now I'm doing my best to help guys bring out the best in themselves and make lasting impressions on others - especially the opposite sex.

Just to be clear for the rest of this article, I'm more about helping guys find their ideal girlfriend and creating a meaningful relationship than a random one night stand.

I’m going to break this down to be as simple as possible - so it’s easy to remember.

Some things may sound fundamental, but from my experience I guarantee that if you focus on these three important keys you will learn how to get any woman wanting to hang out with you over and over again.

Where you take it from there is up to you.

Let’s get to it.

1) From the First Moment: Treat Her As If She’s Already Your Best Friend
Have you ever met a girl for the first time, and she made you feel like you’ve known her for years? So much so, that you felt so at ease and comfortable with her?

I had this huge “act as if they’re your best friend” realization when I was a lot younger. I met a girl who treated me like her best friend upon our first meeting and I instantly got sucked into the frame that we were actually super close, and we literally became best buddies overnight.
I started recognizing this behavior in all the really social people who had a lot of friends, and started doing it myself. The results were amazing, and till this day I count it as one of the most important concepts to creating instant rapport.
A lot of guys tend to put on a veil of politeness for the first few meetings with a girl - they hold back, treating the girl with a polite “respect” so as not to offend her in any way. The truth is that this isn’t the real you. You don’t act like this around your friends so why would you in front of someone who you want to become your friend?
After the first meet she may think you’re a nice guy, but chances are high that she won’t go out of her way to see you again.
Bottom line: Treat every girl you meet for the first time like you’ve known them for years. They’ll instantly feel close to you and let their guards down.

Check Out the Movie Whats Up Chuck on Youtube

Dane Cook’s character and Jessica Alba have met for the first time in this scene, but they talk and treat each other like they’ve been long time friends.
Notice how they create an instant connection and feel totally comfortable around each other.
Be careful not to get too comfortable and blatantly hit on her like Dane Cook’s dumb friend.
Your outcome should never be to “pick her up.” She’ll sense that instantly, and she will put you in the same category as every other skeeveball out there. Instead, your outcome should just be to have a great time and make sure all your friends have a great time.
Speaking of other friends, make sure you’re giving equal attention to them and not just her. You shouldn’t be giving her too much special attention all night.

2) Establish That You’re a Positive and Fun Guy

For a lot of guys the question is whether they have to be the aloof and mysterious James Bond character or the really goofy guy.
The answer is neither.
All you need is to keep a positive attitude and show girls that you know how to have fun.
The opposite extreme of this - which you should avoid at all costs - is to sulk in the corner and give off a negative vibe. Pretty much avoid anything negative like gossip or touchy subjects.
You may feel like you need to be really good at talking about intellectual things or impressing her with interesting stories - but you can display the other sides of your great personality later. All you have to do upon the first meet is to establish that you’re really fun.
Women will respond so much better to the emotional state you’re in than anything you say or do. The impression you’ll make is almost all about how much you can pump her with good emotions. She’ll link all those positive emotions to you and will never forget how she felt when you two were together.
Once you’ve established yourself as a fun guy, they’ll definitely want to hang out with you again - no question. They’ll usually be the one to ask you for your number before you even think about it. This is because it’s so refreshing and rare to meet someone who is full of energy and fun.
Don’t forget to make sure all her friends are having fun too. This is very important. The way to really win over a woman is to win over her friends. If her friends like you, they’ll keep talking about how great you are to her even when you’re not - pretty much doing all the work for you if you plan on taking it further.
Whenever I see that part of the group is not having fun at the club, I’ll just go up to them and start dancing or screaming “wooo!” to get them laughing and having fun. Focus on the weakest links and bring them up. The girl will see that you’re taking care of her friends and love you for it. Her friends will also love you.
3) Be “Dressed to The Nines”

Whatever your style is, make sure you’re feeling totally confident about the way you look before you go out. You should pretty much know for a fact that you look damn good.
If you dress well, a woman will make a thousand positive judgments about you before you utter a word. So do yourself a huge favor and make it vastly easier on yourself to make a great impression. So much of the way we are perceived by others is through the way we dress.
Of course you should be dressed to the occasion, and not be wearing your three-piece suit to a casual dinner with friends. But definitely dress to impress - you’ll be that much more memorable than all the other guys.
It’s All About The Details
Along with these keys, remember that a lot of your impression will be from the little things you do.
We can always tell the most about someone through the seemingly insignificant acts.
It’s the nonchalant moments when someone isn’t “trying” that their true character and personality is revealed.
For example, you can tell what principles and values people have by the way they way they hold a door, clean up after themselves, or the way they might always ask you if you want some of their delicious sandwich.
Women will see the way you listen to someone who’s talking to you, the way you handle a negative comment, the way you help a friend who needs it.
So much of your character is in the HOW you do things, rather than the what. And it’s always the smallest things that reveal the most about you.

Conclusion
Everytime you go out with a group of friends and you meet a new woman, always remember to:
1) Treat her like she’s already your best friend

• Be enthusiastic to meet her as if she’s your long lost friend
• Act as if she already thinks of you as her close friend
• Your outcome should not be to pick her up but try to establish a close friendship first

• Scratch the aloof, James Bond approach and aim for a fun, laughter-filled vibe instead
• Worry about displaying your deeper personality later on, and on the first date, just focus on showing her your fun side - this will ensure she’ll want to see you again

•  ”Dress to the nines” and you’ll automatically exude a level of confidence without saying a word