Attentions Jorunal

One thing I want to remember is MY friends are not pick-up artists in anyway and I should not take advise from them or let them do anything to help me in anyway with girls.

Don't really want to go into details but...the girl mentioned above is pretty much now an object for social proofing after having a discussion with a friend he decided to try and help me out and what i got from her was "Im sorry you pretty much know how I feel i just enjoying talking and hanging out with everyone and enjoying things"

been 2 weeks anyway so maybe if he didnt i would have. BUT new objective get adhd think that would help with the ladies.

SCOREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE.

I feel good about this one because I put some work into it,YES I know it wasnt in one night but 2 months,But i still scored.

Three friends call themselves the three stoogies.All hot three 8s .I always saw them out but could never approach because of all the guys around them.Anyway I met one of them at the gym one day and quit working out to give advise.That night I saw her at the bar and she introduced me to her friends.I was in. So that night I played it cool played pool with them while every guy watched few beers few laughs and I backed off.

Whenever i went to the bar and saw them I had a group to hangout with and meet other girls.So i didnt push for anything.Two weeks ago One girl was there by herself waiting for the other two and I saw my chance.One I should mention they are known for not putting out hence why I wasnt too agressive.
Then i went through everything kino the works iois storytelling.Then I listened,That night even after her friends arrived "SHE ISOLATED ME" I think it was unexpected but she went home alone that night.

Last night after not being around for awhile I saw her and immediately she came over to me and I know I couldnt give it up so...15 minutes before the bar closes she comes and tells me shes going and hugs me just a little too long then goes to find her other friends. I tell my buddy go on without me. I walk her to her car which was behind the bar.And was nervous as hell.

I actually went to the drivers side with her and thought I could brace her against the door then she said. "im sorry the inside of my car is really dirty" and I knew game over.So i quickly walk around get in the passengers side.radio comes on "black eye peas,tonights gonna be a good night" kinda awkward but then she says I like this song because im all about having fun. SO I reach in for then kiss.Then shes ontop on me.then her car is shaking and im like weirded out by people passing.

WHAT I LEARNED.

Listening works.emotional connect.
Might not always happen in one night.
Lady friends are awesome to have.

Positive Energy.

The very next night I went to the bar again and started walking through the place like I owned it and another one of the three set.STuck her foot out and blocked my path and immediately gave me a hug and started asking me how I was doing.

Kinda weird I figure her friend told her about last night and she was trying to be nice or something. So we got drinks and started talking and it was weird because I kept thinking it was a test getting ioi's from her.

SO I had to ask if Lisa told her we had sex in her car but didnt know how.Solution.

"SO is lisa coming out tonight"
her "No one of her cousins is having a baby so shes at the hospital"
"why arent you there with her I thought you two were inseprable"
her "Yea i've been busy at work finally a day off and i needed a drink, and i txt her an hour ago to come out and got that reply"

After that I figure they really didnt talk about me so I decided to play ball. And left.I said im about to go play pool you can come learn from a real man or stay here and be bored.She follwed and we played for awhile. Kino. Then I took her outside,since its a no smoking place and we both do.

I showed her my lighter trick where you light your hand on fire and she was about to hit me on the shoulder to stop and I grabbed her hand and pulled her into me and rigth there we started kissing.

we went back into the bar closed off the tabs then back to her place.

QUESTION.

After sleeping with 2 out of three close friends how can u talk your way out of being a douchbag.

PLANE from phoenix to yuma.

Just landed in Arizona didnt see much hot chicks at the airport.At this point I was happy full of energy walked around a bit. Then when the started seating us on the plane I realized it was a relic left over from like world war 2. small and looks like its about to fall apart.

BUt when i went to my seat I realized I had the window seat which is good and the person sitting next to me was smoking hot a 9 hands down. So i went into my seat and mellowed out thinking analyzing her. Then the flight attendant said they were extra seats and  if you see an open seat just fill it in if you WANT TO.

I realized she didnt move so she was either really lazy or wanted to be next to me. I pick option 2.I pulled out a book and started reading forgot what book but no name on cover and really big so I looked smart then i started pretending I t was really funny and I was really into it.Thinking ill make up a story and mention it to her. She started looking over and when I looked at her she pretened she was looking out the window then she said. Have you flown in a plane like this before.I was kinda nervous I felt like it was a test the whole time talking to her like at any moment shed be like.You just got punked.But  57 minutes of flight and talking I got her number and shes gonna show me around yuma when I call her up.

Okay weird situation...The girl I started off this Journal about ended up being a cool friend we hung out at the bars she'd text me to come out and hang with her and her girls and id hang out with her at work talk about stuff at the back of my mind yeah I was thinking pick her up but I was also thinking forget about it.

Well after I got to arizona turns out my boy ended up dating her best friend and now shes all on me. I should be happy but now I just seem like second best.Should I consider it or just move on keep being friends.

I've reached the point where I realized I know nothing and really need to read more and rework everything.I think this is the point where most would say i quit.
My first night out in Arizona a big bust.I canned myself in my head badly tonight. Everything seemed different from my  town where I know all the bouncers bartenders  at every barand have friends in there.

Tonight I went with two other Marines to this place called the fun factory neat place big lots of people good music and sets everywhere. One particular set i know I could of broke into 100 percent they had but I didnt and eventually they left. The one set I opended I didnt get to lock in because after she said her boyfriend was a marine and stationed in yuma I kinda back off because marines try not to mess with other marines girls,especially me.

Eventually I went to the dance floor which i can say I made progress there met three girls but there wasnt any connection didnt lock in worked some dance game met three girls. On thing I did good was there was a two set a 8 and a 6 I started dancing with the eight and the 6 started backing awa y so I swapped into the middle and pulled her back in said asked her why she was drifting away then I started dancing with her. I started getting alot of ioi from her and her friend started competing with her.eventually the eight walked off the dance floor and her friend went to see what was wrong then came back and said she her friend was ready to go. I think if i got a conversation going it would of went better.

Also I got had in the weirdest way when walking by the dance floor this girl grabs me starts dancing with me fat ugly nothing was gonna happen but she could grind so i was okay then she took my beer out my hand and drank from it so I just let her have it and walked away.I felt used.

goal for tonight go back out. start learning spanish word to throw out tonight and eventually learn spanish.

NOTE:Stop rushing my journals...Horrible Grammer.

Hooked up with two beautiful spanish girls in one night 38 and 20.weird story to follow but Arizona could be fun.