Girlfriends
Ok, Im trying this stuff and im meeting new girls every week. Im in a sexual relation with two girls right now, but I still want to make more female friends, The thing is that Im confused now, What would be the response of a girl if I use this material to create attraction and all that stuff and then at the end tell them that I just want to be friends? (I now this will get her more interested) but ifi really want just to be friends and hang around? would they leave ?? is there any material for making more female friends for a long term relation and not only to have a sexual relationship? And having those female friends just to hang around?
Ya, just talk dont do any kino....
I wish I had your problems - two girlfriends, but you need to learn how to get into the friend zone without having them want to date you?!
It's easy to make girl-friends. Just skip the kino, and go lightly on the dhv's. Let her know subtly that you just want to be friends - don't say it as a rejection, just assume the frame that you two are friends and not potential mates. Girls pick up on this easy.
However, it is good to have your girl "friends" be a little attracted to you - not so much that it causes drama, but enough that other girls can sense the attraction. Nothing shows social proof, and makes a girl want you more, than having attractive female friends around who are clearly into you. But just don't lead them on, or you will end up with troubles. You can establish the correct frame by jokingly suggesting other guys she should date, or telling her you want to go out with her so you can meet women and she can meet guys - there are tons of ways of subtly creating the friendship frame. But don't do anything to discount her attractiveness - I always tell my female friends how hot they are. Makes them love me all the more, and sets the frame that you are both high value people, an opinion she will spread to all the other females, giving you incredible social proof. My best female friend is married, but we are conscious of our attraction for one another without acting on it, so when we go out she does her best to get me laid - I hardly have to work at all with her there, telling other girls how she would sleep with me if she wasn't already married, etc. And she is always introducing me to hot girls, getting them to act sexual around me, etc. Girls are by far the best wings you can have!
And with female friends, it is fine, even good, to do those things you avoid doing to show interest with girls you want to hook up with - compliments, gifts, all that. Females LOVE having a guy friend who is high value. And they can always be your 'backup plan' in case you ever change your mind about the sexual part. When you truly do not show interest in a girl, yet actively pursue a friendship, the active disinterest alone can serve to make you attractive in her eyes. Great way to establish a social circle that is congruent with the PUA lifestyle.
