spring break at destin fl. direct game tips?

well first I have to know how do you look physically? Mystery says that women's attraction switches are mostly based on social and survivability status, which is 100% true. The thing about women near 22 or 23 is that if they pick up a guy that looks physically attractive it increases their social status.

If you are good looking enough to get IOIs from girls just walking through a hotel/pool area/mall then you don't really need to worry about transitioning when using direct openers, the women will go out of their way to get to know you. This is definetly not the case with me, but then again I don't use direct openers very often.

If you get an approach indicator during day game and the girl has that grin on her face that's just asking you to fuck her, try to be casual and just talk about whatever... If the conversation really dies phrase an interview question like a phrase. "I bet your a school teacher, aren't you?" instead of "what do you do?" Just be ready to answer when she asks why you thought that, if she does.

first off im not that old. so im not going for those girls just yet. ive been told from girls that im not the hottest guy but im real cute so i think thats ok. jsut got back from my trip and it was ok. no real successes partly because most girls that were there i already new and the others i just didnt approach. it was a fun trip but im definitly gunna make up for the approaches that i didnt do. when i did approach i would go with something like.. hey do u no where the pelican is? they say whatever and id transition. im good at talking but i can never get the interaction to go where i want it. i get the touching of the hair iois but i cant seem to get the interaction to go to the bedroom. oh and u can check out my facebook if u wanna see me. http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=567298223&ref=ts#/home.php?ref=home

I know this is past the point of relevancy for your trip, but this is a good subject anyway - so here is a good guide for any type of college style party week out of town:

Spring break, Mardi Gras, etc, are all about sex. Women take these trips to live out their slutty fantasies without getting a rep around home as being slutty. They go with the plans of sleeping with men they won't see again, so all you have to do is be there and be fun. If you are good looking and in shape, it makes it all the easier because it is a casual sex thing - but those physical traits are not necessary at all. Just make sure you are very outgoing and fun. Girls will hook up at these events with guys who are ballsy who make them feel like they are living a huge party. Watch a 'Girls Gone Wild' video and see what I mean - their inner slut explodes out of them at these things!

One thing that will put you a mile above the compitition is to stay somewhat sober. All the other guys will get so trashed that they can't pick up women. By all means, drink enough to have fun, but stay sober enough to be on your game more than the hammered dudes who just look silly. Another thing that will totally boost your game is proper logistics. Stick to bars and parties near your hotel room. You always end up bringing people back there, and if you get them to your room it will likely lead to sex. Make sure you work out with the people sharing your room a way to get the place alone for hooking up (although more often than not, people end up fucking while other people are in the room. Be ok with that - it makes a great story for your buddies to tell about you).

When you first show up, start partying right away in your hotel room. Cheaper hotels are better because there are more wild parties, and you can be more wild without complaints.

So right after you check in, start drinking (or whatever) with the people you are there with, and do it out on the balcony and leave the door to the room open so all your hotel neighbors can see you are a fun, partying group. Introduce yourself to everyone in the rooms around you that you can. Go to thier room, and have them go to yours - you can easily hook up with the females, and the guys will bring hot girls over, and you can introduce hot girls to them. OWN the hotel. Bring the party to your room. Become known immediately as the 'cool room' where other hotel guests come over to party. Girls AND guys. This way, you are already at the spot where you can have sex with the girls you meet, and you don't seem like you are just trying to get them into your room for sex (which, of course, you are ).

Pre-party at the hotel like this, then go out to the strip and tear it up, but stay sober enough to work your game. Make your aim to bring a good group of folks back to your room. A great thing to do is to hang out at the clubs near your hotel (make sure your hotel is within walking distance of the cool party spots), and when you meet someone there, bounce back to your room for drinks - "hey, fuck these $12 drinks, lets run up to our room and take a few shots from the stash we have there (or smoke a joint, do a line, whatever your thing is)" - then you can take your target's whole group up to your room, hang there for a few minutes, and go back to the club, without trying to do anything with the girls. If you do that, you disarm their fear of you being a predator, and your room becomes a 'safe' place for the girls to go after the bars. It really helps to make any excuse to go to your room with them and then leave without trying to bed them right then. They will feel much more comfortable coming back. It helps if there are a good bit of people coming and going from your room - social proof that makes you look like the kind of people the girls are there to party with. If you can get a few cool people back to your room for some after-partying, then it is very easy for the girls to just stay there with you instead of going home as the night winds down.

Try to meet a girl on the first evening you are there. Girls actually like to have a 'boyfriend' for the duration of thier vacation, a mini-relationship that exists only for that weekend, even though you both are likely to be having (or at least pursuing) sex with other people the whole time. This is just how girls' minds work. They like to meet a guy the first night who they can have a little fantasy relationship with over the course of the trip - I think it makes them feel less slutty, and just caters to thier built-in desire to nest. But, it makes the whole trip all the more memorable. You kind of serve as each other's default or backup pull for the night. Work this girl a little harder in comfort, spend some actual time with her - like going out to eat during the day, swimming during the day, etc. in addition to just partying. Plan to do one thing that is cooler than just hanging out drinking - like spend a day scuba diving or windsurfing with her (and all of your friends) - perfect stuff for comfort, and gives you a really good DHV later that night. Everyone else just slept in, maybe went swimming, and drank - but hey, YOU did cool shit like going scuba diving in addition to just partying - it just totally makes you seem more complex, mature, and of more value. And it is a TON of fun!
If you can find a girl that first night, it will make your whole trip (try not to be too picky, it's just a week-long thing - it's more important to just HAVE a 'girlfriendette' for the week than it is to try hard for a HB10 and miss out on having someone for the whole week to hang out with). It helps you establish a great state early: that you are getting laid on this trip, you are a high value male with social proof, etc. - it just makes you instantly The Man. And other girls who are around will see you with her, and want you for themselves. That shit is like pickup voodoo!

As far as game goes, the context is more sexual than normal. Sex is on everyone's mind. Everyone is racing to have a hook up, so going direct is the easiest way to get there the quickest. Do some fun stuff during the day like swimming, cooking out, exploring, etc., and meet some girls who you can meet up with later in the evening. Don't worry too much about phone #'s, just pick a place and time to meet their whole group. Spend the day finding sets to meet later - many won't show up, so plan to have LOTS of them meet you out laer. Then, you can go to the club/bar and already have social proof, plus you have been together at multiple venues, making it seem like you are closer. And by all means, DO go to many different clubs and bars - try to bounce sets to the place next door. If you bounce the set somewhere nearby, it is more like you are hanging out 'together', your two groups become one big group, and all the more likely they will end up at your place later that night. Aim to end up at YOUR room at the end of the night, not thiers if possible - it just gives you more control and helps you own the frame. Plus, she isn't nearly as worried about what happens, because her freinds won't witness as much as if you were in thier room. Plus, guys just know how to party better than girls. Guys' rooms are always WAY more fun than girls rooms (although, if you stay at her room, you often get to see her friends naked )

Key points:
Set your room up as THE party room. Meet your hotel neighbors right away, and make one of them your open-relationship girlfriend for the week. Stay more sober than the compitition, especially the first night (although do take some days to just get completely wasted - it IS spring break!). Party close to your hotel, so logistics are in your favor. Have a good stash of liquor/beer/wine/pot/heroin(jk) at your room, so you can take sets back there for drinks so they can get comfortable being at your place, then take them back to the bars - they will be eager to come back to your room later, and likely may even just show up unannounced. Also, have some cards and/or games in your room - nothing is a one-way ticket to drunk sex like a game of strip poker or Asshole (or whatever drinking game). Work out the logistics with your roommates. Most important of all, though: have fun. BE fun. That is the whole point, and if you are genuinely having a great time, people will be attracted to this.

Enjoy these kinds of trips - you don't get to do this much when you are older, and there is no other kind of situation where sex is just on everyone's mind - make legends. You want stories to tell your grandkids (when they are old enough to hear about your adventures)!

Oh, and by all means - take a digital camera or video camera!!!!

A side piece of advice I learned by going on these trips - you will spend a TON of $$$. Make sure you bring a wad of several hundred dollars that you plan to blow on the trip. But be frugal. Don't buy too many drinks at clubs - use your stash of liquor to pull sets to your room, and make sure you have more than enough bottles there for a week of big parties. The last few days, everyone is out of money and end up drinking back at the hotel a lot - prepare yourself for being broke those last few days by stocking up on the liquor and food at your room. But hide the majority of it, because if you do things right a lot of people will be coming and going and lots of people will abuse this fact by stealing your shit - so keep most of the good stuff (and your valuables) under the bed when people are over - just have a few bottles out that you need that night. One awesome thing I used to do was have a bottle of Jager, peppermint Schnapps (Hiram-Walker 80 proof, not the weak stuff), or some other fun kind of liquor, and go room to room selling shots. If you buy a $20 bottle of liquor, you can sell shots for $2 and you will sell them all easily because people are drunk, want more booze, but don't want to go to the store. So you can turn that $20 into $80 reallly fast!

I love going to these kinds of things, because they are really all just about casual sex, partying waaay too hard, and forgetting about all of life's worries for a week! Oh, how I wish I were in college again!