Field Report Number 2

Club Sarge - Friday Night

I go out peacocked with a black Trilby. Nothing else special but I am new in this town, an unknown.

I get opened by a one-set 2 minutes after entering a bar. I blow it off cos she looks like a man. I drink, I chat with friends at the bar (not at a table), but no big gestures. I go for a smoke and get opened by a 2 set HB8's - "I love your hat" says one, I ask why - they tell me no one wears them round here - but then turn to chat to a guy behind them. I roll back into the bar without saying goodbye.

My wing and I roll to another bar after fluffing with 2 different 3 sets but no real transition from our openers. The barmaid opens him with massive IOI's - I cant believe what I'm seing - its like he could F close her there on the bar but he gets scared and rolls off without even getting the number, we move to a hotel on the harbour. We get thrown out for not being residents after 20 mins of making eye contact with the crowd, and flirting with the bar staff.

We move to a club, a 2 set of HB8's is behind us in the que, I turn and say "Hey! You guys having a good time? I have the advantage as I was chatting to a female friend at the time and so appear as a non-threat. They fill the space with boring chatter about what pubs they have been to etc... whilst we cue. I kino some, one is just my type - everything about her is what I like in a woman.

We stroll in, and I ditch the two set at the bar (It was a mistake, but I dont want to buy them drinks). Whilst waiting I get opened again by another two set (1 x HB8 1 x HB6) The HB8 does most of the talking and I rag on her because she looks like a white Rhianna, but has a lip piercing. I kino both because I can't decide who I'm going to sleep with. No routines, I'm just drunk, and funny, and on form. The HB6 is clearly the most intrested, but is not my original target. I pay too much attention to the 8 and blow it she tells me she has a FB but her friend (HB6) isn't getting any. The 6 gets hyper-active, grabbing my hat which I take back. She tells me "I dont have diseases!" - I say "You would say that!"

She introduces me to her ex, he's 6'3", muscle bound and as gangster as they come round here, but a nice guy all the same. We talk some for 15 - 20 mins, he's fathered two of HB6s kids but split with her 6 weeks ago. I tell him where I come from people can't be friendly like we're being now - especially whites and blacks - he smiles and high fives me. We're cool.

I drink some more, I talk to multiple sets but by this time I'm too drunk to know what I'm saying. I know I'm being arrogant, as a HB9 calls me on my shit, asks me why I wear a hat "Is it because you're bald?" I am, but I say "Nope - so I can pull it down and not look at people like you!" She flips totally and storms off. I laugh and go for a smoke. Her friends hang by the bar but I've lost interest in the set.

Outside, HB6 approaches again, she asks - "Are you like this when you're not drinking?" I answer "Yep - I'm like this always." She tells me she's totally different when she's sober, I smile, pull her toward me and we kiss for maybe a half hour. I tease her, she wants a lot of tongue but I like playing with her - kissing her neck etc... She keys her number in my phone before I ask for it.

I tell her I have to go get a drink. She lets me take her by the hand and we go to the bar. Whilst there she gives me money for her drink, I order. She tells me she wont sleep with me on the first night we meet. A passing acquantance says Hi. I ditch the 6 to talk to the acquantance and bump into the 8's from outside. We fluff some more, but I'm aware this 8 is just my type and she knows it - I run no game , my body language is all wrong. I roll off rather than get blown out.

My wing is lost with some chick in the back, I start to feel like that lonely "2am and alone in the club" thing is gonna kick in. I live only 5 minutes away so I call him and tell him I'm gonna blow. He says OK, but thinks he's gonna close - so I leave the place alone. I text the HB6 to say "bye, gtg" she texts back telling me to wait. I go outside and light up a smoke. She comes out. I say "Hey". She says "Hey". I ask "You want to leave with me?" She nods. We F- Close that night.

She leaves my place Saturday morning. She texts me Sunday afternoon telling me she now has money on her phone (previously she told me we couldn't talk this weekend as she has no credit). I dont answer. Its Tuesday now, I may call her at the weekend. I may not.

What I learned - 1) Dont worry about who you are talking too - ugly girls, black dudes or HB's. Be social - You'll have more fun. 2) Dont let that 8 who seems to be all you want phase you, or you'll end up going home with a 6 you didn't want. 3) If a girl mentions that she wont sleep with you that night - its because she wants to sleep with you.