building attraction

Ok first of all you NEVER EVER EVER invite someone out for a cup of tea. Unless you know this person happens to be the world's biggest tea fanatic and you just found this super duper new awesome tea shop that no one knows about with the best tea in the world (I'm adding this in just to make this run on sentence a lot longer than it needs to be because I think that's fun). If you can get them to answer the phone you need to talk to them, don't make it seem like you just called to invite them out to tea. Try to invite them to something interesting, spontaneous, and noncomital.
Second, if you've built enough attraction with them you can invite them out to whatever you want, including tea, and they will come. I know this advice is contradictory to my previous advice. But, once you understand the game well enough you can break rules whenever you want. I'm not saying that my game is at that stage... But, thinking back on my past success with women (pre mystery method) I violated pretty much every rule imaginable. Maybe if they are not returning your phone calls you need to work on your openings, or maybe you convey too much neediness. You should give us specific examples and dialoge so we can help you more.

I think he wanted to "PS. Let J-dog respond first!!!!!!!!"

lol eddie joe you've responded first to almost every thread in the "ask jdog" section. Jdog hasn't even responded to half of them... maybe he thinks we're doing a good job? Besides... the advice that I gave him came pretty much straight from Jdog.

I met Jdog out here in Phoenix and I was talking to him about inviting out women that are in my classes at ASU. I was like "How do I get them to go hang out with me outside of school? I've invited a few of them to lunch and..." Jdog specifically told me "Do not invite them out to lunch." He gave me a few other suggestions but you don't get to know them.

I know, LOL, it's just cause the guy was being a little bitch about it. Advice is advice, you can take it or not. I just found it funny that the guy said "ooh let jdog anser first" when he hasn't posted in quite a while.

yeah no kidding. Jdog must be extremely busy with things, being a cofounder of a multimillion dollar corporation (SO SAYS WIKIPEDIA!). Ichigo, All of my advice comes straight from books written by professional PUAs and from field testing things... I'm not going to give you my opinion because I'm not the best at this.

Yea, Jdog replied to one of my messages, he says he is really busy, working on something else....hmm.

But anyways, fun fact.

He said it randomly says he is online when he really isn't.

So he isn't avoiding us or anything, just busy.