Inviting out women.
Ok so I have this bad habit of talking to extremely hot women in all of my classes at ASU. What's worse is that I build attraction with them. They sit close to me they smile and laugh at my jokes; even the ones that aren't that funny. I've had coffee or lunch a few times with some of these women. I've given a few of them compliance tests, and they've passed. I'm ok at bouncing them to a new location if they don't have anything to do after class. But, how do I invite a woman out without appearing needy?
The first time I asked one of them to go to lunch with me I was turned down. That's ok it's just a comment on the way I'm doing things not really a rejection. So, I think... what did I do wrong? I didn't make lunch seem as awesome as humanly possible. The next time I'm going to build the hell out of whatever event I'm inviting them to and maybe then they will fall they want to go with me. Kind of like seeding but I'm not trying to get their phone number.
I met Jdog at a really popular spot for college students in Tempe. He told me he used to invite women out to "parties" that were in reality just him and a friend. A lot of them said they knew there really wasn't any party going on. I thought that was particularly funny, and because he did it I have to try it.
I'm relatively new to the game. Most of my experience comes just from practicing openers in all kinds of situations.... I haven't really progressed to kino and seduction. At least not using any kind of method. Should I just escalate kino after I bounce them? What's the smoothest way to transition from casual coffee with a classmate to touching and kissing? How do I get them to meet me outside of school? Any advice would be great.
Be casual about it, like "Did you eat yet? I'm to grab a bite if you wanna tag along." Get her with her defenses down, if you make a whole production of the thing her bitch shield will go up.
I really like the phrase bitch shield. LoL I've eaten lunch/gotten coffee with women in my classes using that kind of logic.
Hay man kino should be going on, from to get go, Small touches after she gives you 3 ioi's then exultate to more touching yule know the time
hope that helps man
You have it a little twisted ditto... start touching everyone in the group immediately when you first meet them... then after 3 iois shift from attraction to comfort building... but yeah I get the idea I need to start touching women... that sounds like terrible amounts of fun lol.
yea to me its was just doing it, goda thank about it at frist so it seams a litttle hard to put it to use
Thanks for your opinions, but I came up with this answer on my own. The thing about asking a girl out is it's all about timing. It really doesn't matter how you ask the girl or what you invite her to... if she's interested in you she'll go to a coffee shop with you, even if she hates coffee
The important thing to remember in this kind of situation is the best moment to ask a girl out is IMMEDIATELY after you make her work for your affection. I was talking to an HB8 in my com230 class via text message... and we were talking about our similarities and she said something like "I'm not a creep or anything." Working for my affection? GJ you get rewarded. What are you doing this weekend you want to come hang out with my sister and I on Friday? We're having a small party.
She said "I'll check my schedule and see if I can go." You know what, I think she means it too... It wasn't just a polite shrug off like "sorry I might have to work but I'll let you know." This girl is totally kool too I hope she doesn't flake on me.
