Good news after learning the game.i need the mindset.

HB is a player huh well my advice is to game here like any hb dont let  her game bet yours ;P and neg her a little more just my advice
hope that helps

Dude she's a ho fo sho. All joking aside, seems like she just wants to mees around with guess. That's perfect. Just wait turn turn and pounce. I wouldn't even send her a text on valentine. Act uninterested aloof like she might not get to fuck you. And you will. Check my She Dates Other Guys thread, as it involves a similar situation.

Okey i will have a look at your thread She Dates Other Guys thread eddiejoe.
By the way the first time i had a day game with her i toke her back to my place but since my parents were in we couldent go dirty.
So we did other dirty things. buti couldent seal the deal as  fuck her.
The sms text im going to seand its not needy or anything like it its funny its this text and since shes spanish but understands inglish i can try out her inglish :P text would be this : "your my secret valentine this year, just keep it for yourself, I've already got this fatty buying me chocolate"  
Ive noticed that when shes with me i make her laght allways on the phone or in person and i get her on, hwen i was on the phone with her and she said to me its been so long that she hasent heard from me asked me if i was going out on friday, I told her that im organizing to meet up to party she immediately said yes she will come and i left it at that said i had to go and hanged up.
When we were at the disco and i was having a blased with her and she was loving it since i got her laghing and she was refraiming every thing i said that wasent funny and she laght to weel i said to her to try out and see if she remembered the day were meeting and het Answer was: No and i acted by beeing cooky and funny Ohh i cant belive this you cant remember and then she said Shocked and laghing ah yes yes yes its this day isent it.

(She told me the exact day)

And hse loevd my nel look of hair style i did she gave me  compliments towords it.

If she told me this "Hes not my boyfriend hes just a guy i kiesed" and ijust smiled and said theres no problem did she meen something my saying that to me ? i think she did but want to know what you guys think.
Ah and that night i had a fight nearly becase some guy grabed my mate wanting to hit it andi had to stop it i told the HB that but NOT to impress her no way i jsut said it because its somethign of my life that happend And guess waht she said : Did he hit you did you get hurt ? (Man guys i think she worreis about me)
Knowing these things do i have more stuff on my advantege ?
Oh and by yhe way guys ive got another girl m not so into but she is to me can i try to do a jealouse plot line since girls do it to us with other guys why cant we andi f so how can i do that ?

What country is she from? I'm Puertorican btw. I find myself having to modify a lot of things that come off the books when i'm cold reading this girls in a convo. Latin women are a little bit different. I don't know if anyone else would agree with me, but that's what i've gathered from my experience.

Well shes spanish shes not latin at all.
People tell me to not seand her and sms on saint valentines  not eventhis one: "your my secret valentine this year, just keep it foryourself, I've already got this fatty buying me chocolate"   to me itsounds cocky and funny.they told me to not seand anything to her that day becase every guy will do it and i would lose my chancese to Get dirty with her.
Im getting confused about that is that true i meen i have to be someone im not to get her and beeingthe way i am we seem to have a blast of a time together.
They told me to not ddo it becasue it looks like she ses you as a funnysimpatic guy and as an excuse for giving that huy 1 kiss with me thereshe said to me that hes no her boyfriend.
I dont see it like that i think she told me that so she dosent lose her chances with me.
And weve allready made a day to go out to party together and that same night she still said she would come.
She seemed worred when i told her about the fight i had protecting my mate.Well shes spanish shes not latin at all.
People tell me to not seand her and sms on saint valentines  not even this one: "your my secret valentine this year, just keep it for yourself, I've already got this fatty buying me chocolate"   to me it sounds cocky and funny.
They told me to not ddo it becasue it looks like she ses you as a funny simpatic guy and as an excuse for giving that huy 1 kiss with me there she said to me that hes no her boyfriend.and i said there is no problem and she smiled at me looking at me.

I dont see it like that i think she told me that so she dosent lose her chances with me.
And weve allready made a day to go out to party tofether and that same night she still said she would come.
She seemed worred when i told her about the fight i had protecting my mate.

Now people are making me get confused they say im not an alfa male im a guy that she laght with and like to be with i meen isent that a good thing ?

Why im i saying all of this do i have to be somone im not to gaine the girl ?
Lastnight i was myself dident care and loved what ever outcome could ofcome up and it worked really well BUT some people have told me thatthats not beeing an alfa male she wont be interested in you like thatshe will see you like some guy that is funny.
Man it driving me nuts this

Well a lot people would argue that people from Spain are also Latin, since the word latin comes from the latin language which is the root of the spanish language, so ha! Also Spanish women are kind loose. Most european women are less inhibited than american women. I think you need to decide first If you want to live by the method or not. And get a spell checker, no offense.

Follow the method okey

Lets see im goign to try  to explain myself now

1.If im beeing myself and having fun ang get her gigeling and use the skills i know of like kino and stay calm like its no big deal that the guy gave her a kiss and she told me that his not her boyfriend Nowing that and that shes still going to meet me up and we have set the date. Is doing all of this dose it meen im NOT an alfa male to her eyes and jsut some guy she has fun with ?

2.She spanish i can tell you that they are loose but still there are some that arent this one is, Now since she said she would go out to party with me and told me that the guy wasent her Boyfriend with out me even asking her.
Dose that meen shes still in to me and teling me in girl code that i still have a chance with her?

3.Some people have told me to not seand her the sms becuse it will give her more value than me andi wont get to go Dirty with her is that possible ?

4.They tell me to be the alfa man beeing a way im not i would be lieing to myself and the rest , Cant i be natural with the skills of the game  and still be an alfa male the male she wants ?

How you can understand it now.

This Girl imtring to get i did a day game with her once and we went back to myplace but we couldent seal the deal since i live with my parents andthey were in and she dident want to since they were in so we left andgot dirty doing other things but i couldent seal the deal.
After i couldent seal the deal that day game and geting to be nighti dissapeard for 17 days to work on myself and studed more about andthen i called the HB i had a crush on after taking some time for myselfand work on the game.
I made sure the convo wasent to long i asked her how things were shewas very happy to hear from me since she said its been a long time thati havent heard from you i said i know i dont catch you online neitherthen she said its becase her pc isent working.

Then i told her that i was calling her to see how things were sheexplaind some problems that happend and i said i just wanted to tellyou im organizing to meet up to party and she immedeaatly acepted without me finishing the sentence.

she asked me why are me going so late and i repled im going on holidaythe next week. She asked me were i told her and then She said she wouldtell me things but that she woudl come.
Then i said i had another call and left.
Friday night i went out in the end and i opend some girls i didentkclose them becase 1 had kclosed a mate og mine another girl hadkclosed alot of guys allready that i saw and seh dident let me anddident kclose anymore that night.
1 thing i could do was make them all Giggle crazy beeing with me and get really close to them dancesing.

Later I found the HB im in to First thing she said was that she lovedmy new hair style.I made the Hb giglged so much with me we dancedtogether talked loads made her giggle lots of times she was looking atmy eyes and i said to her dont look at me like a fat kid looking at achese burger and she giggled lots more. then i did some kino to herlike a massage on her neck that she loves me to do to her i can telljust by her look on her face and she lets me she let and lets me grabher hand i can do some kino to her.
Then i told her to come and got myself a drink When i went to thebar i asked her did we arange to meet up when i come back from holiday? she said: No

Then i went all coky and funny saying : God! You dont remember I jsut cant belive this .
I made her Giggle lots more and she immedeatly said Ah yes yes yes were meting on this day and told me the exact day.
Then i wanted to iselate her from the grup but she dident want to leave her friends there.
I said fine and we went back at that point it was like 2 in the morningand i knew that there was a reason for that she dident come.
And Bam some guy comes to the table just whn im making her gigleloads more and dance with her i se him and i say to the Girl arent yougoing to introduce us and she was shoked about that she giggled and didso i knew he kissed her i just was seeing the matrix i see the guy soinsecure and he gets her takes her a side to the table they talk aboutsomething and he gives her a kiss.

Then i just keept talking to her once she sat down like nothing happendand she immedeatly said to me : "Hes NOT my boyfriend his just some guy"
I said There is no problem she giggled and smiled at me.
1.If im beeing myself and having fun ang get her gigeling and usethe skills i know of like kino and stay calm like its no big deal thatthe guy gave her a kiss and she told me that his not her boyfriendNowing that and that shes still going to meet me up and we have set thedate. Is doing all of this dose it meen im NOT an alfa male to her eyesand jsut some guy she has fun with ?
2.She spanish i can tell you that they are loose but still there aresome that arent this one is, Now since she said she would go out toparty with me and told me that the guy wasent her Boyfriend with out meeven asking her.
Dose that meen shes still in to me and teling me in girl code that i still have a chance with her?
3.Some people have told me to not seand her the sms that would becocky and funny on saint valenties because it will give her more valuethan me and i wont get to go Dirty with her since every guy would bedoing so is that possible ?
4.They tell me to be the alfa man beeing a way im not i would belieing to myself and the rest , Cant i be natural with the skills ofand still be an alfa male the male she wants ?
5.Did she meen some thing bu saying his not my boyfriend?
6.What do you guys think about whats happening ?
7.To Keep this strait t know what i want i want an relashanship withthis girl im not thinking i want it and im doing stuf to try to gain it.
8.I want to Get dirty and heavy with her.
Now you can understand it now.

I'll try to read it later.

okey thank  you

Follow the method okey
Lets see im goign to try  to explain myself now
1.If im beeing myself and having fun ang get her gigeling and use the skills i know of like kino and stay calm like its no big deal that the guy gave her a kiss and she told me that his not her boyfriend Nowing that and that shes still going to meet me up and we have set the date. Is doing all of this dose it meen im NOT an alfa male to her eyes and jsut some guy she has fun with ?
2.She spanish i can tell you that they are loose but still there are some that arent this one is, Now since she said she would go out to party with me and told me that the guy wasent her Boyfriend with out me even asking her.
Dose that meen shes still in to me and teling me in girl code that i still have a chance with her?
3.Some people have told me to not seand her the sms becuse it will give her more value than me andi wont get to go Dirty with her is that possible ?
4.They tell me to be the alfa man beeing a way im not i would be lieing to myself and the rest , Cant i be natural with the skills of the game  and still be an alfa male the male she wants ?
How you can understand it now.

-personality

I'm no experte but.

1. Yep I think you're not the alpha male. The last pick up book I read was Magic Bullets, from there I learned that maybe it's time to try a little bit of cold shoulder with her.

2. If she excuses herself to you, you matter to her. You got that one right.

3. No message, nada. Part of the plan to get away from her. You're going to come off needy and like eveyone else. You have to separate yourself from the pack.

4. Of course. You don't have to change who you are to appeal to women. Incorporate the Rules of the game to your own life, make adjustments not changes. For example, if you tell canned material flat out lying like "Oh I went basejumping yesterday and the funniest thing happened..." and you don't base jump you can get caught. I'm a bad liar, I have a bad memory for lies. I just incorporate the game into who i am already.

1. Yep I think you're not the alpha male. The last pick up book I readwas Magic Bullets, from there I learned that maybe it's time to try alittle bit of cold shoulder with her

Hmm a little cold shoulder like Not seanding the sms and just waiting for the day that weree meent to meet up rite ?

Main thing here is since that night she let me kino her totch her dancetogether and got her ggigling and i could see the atracction in herface , Since were meeting next week dose it meen shes sexualy into me ?

If i have to give her now a cold shoulder and not get in totch with heruntill one day befourr the night wont the sexual atracction go awaysince im not fisicly with her untill that day ?

If so what do you recommeand me to do so it dosenEddiejoe I see what you meen Ibetter not seand her the sms soshe dosent put me in the same bag okey i get that. It can happen rite what if i did do it but im NOT she would have an excuse to not go out to party with me in the end wouldent it ?
1. Yep I think you're not the alpha male. The last pick up book I readwas Magic Bullets, from there I learned that maybe it's time to try alittle bit of cold shoulder with her
Hmm a little cold shoulder like Not seanding the sms and just waiting for the day that weree meent to meet up rite ?
Main thing here is since that night she let me kino her totch her dance together and got her ggigling and i could see the atracction in her face , Since were meeting next week dose it meen shes sexualy into me ?
If i have to give her now a cold shoulder and not get in totch with her untill one day befourr the night wont the sexual atracction go away ?
If so what do you recommeand me to do so it dosent.

Id i make her ggigle even that i say or do silly things that arent funny but she giggles about it with me becase i ahve a LOT of value or am i wrong and you can tell i dont.

This is a double edged sword. You might end up comming off as a clown and then you're just a source of amusement. You need to kino escalate. If enything else fails tell her "Chupame La Verga!" or Suck my dick in spanish :)

eddiejoeEddiejoe maybe it's time to try a little bit of cold shoulder with her.i will try that out  oh and is it changing the things i want with herfor example sincei said i want an relashanship and she said yes at that tme
but i want to go dirty on her now oi can still say that to her " chupame la verga". but should i be sayng it in a funny way or serious ?
Well thats whar im going to do when i see her i wll kino escalate andjust tell her suck my dick in spanish and see what happens.
Since we will be ot side i will have to improvise were will go wont i to go dirty on her and her on me .

Ive got to keep things strait and honest rite so she sees that i know what i want and other girls the same rite ?

I admite that to say " chupame la verga" my brainsays dont say it its like stuck in to my head my be not anymore but i could of said it the firs tiem she came to my place and i dident am angry with my self about that..
Since were be out should i try to bring her back to my place or go to somep lace around there if not ?
This last question will be hard to answer but i will leave it out there is she said she will come and let me do some kino on her isent she telling me that that night isent the time but on the day were meeting something will happen since it looked tome she was sub comunicating it to me ?
Im going strait on the questions so there arent no missunderstanidngs
Im NOT going to seand her nothing untill we meet up im high value im not like the rest of chumps im NO chump.
I DONT want to be just that guy she giggles to like if i ma clown IM gGOING to be the alfa male and AM in her eues.
Thanks your really hellping me.

Tell her "Hey I have this friend who taught me some spanish, do you know what Chupame La Verga menas?" If she laughs in a playful mood, then you have sexual escalated, because her mind will go to the act. 
Try to get her alone somehwere private.
Also you are getting one-itis with this girl, you need to circulate more women so you don't get obssesed with this only one. this girl is not your only shot at happiness.

Tell her "Hey I have this friend who taught me some spanish, do youknow what Chupame La Verga menas?" If she laughs in a playful mood,then you have sexual escalated, because her mind will go to the act.  Okey i will try that out hey do you think i could take her back to my place after the party ? or should i arange that samenight to arange to meet up on a day game ?

Alsoyou are getting one-itis with this girl,Jajjaja I know why do you think i had to stay 17 days away from her like i dont exist now i sometimes feel im falling in agen but by going to the gy mworking hard lots harder and talking to lots of girls i get it away and i was get thinking "Why in the hell am i thinking about this im going to see her in a weeks time man control yourself." thats what i say to myself and i start feeling better.

Okey like you said take her somewere private i will do that This is what i wanted to mentcion i have issues with myself of not seeing the world as how it is why sincei was small i was religious and they told me the same stuf so i saw woman and my brain said to me they wont do that they wouldent do dirty things and that slowed me down poco a poco NOW ive changed i dont think lik that and im a lot happier :D But i still notice ive got sticky parts there like will i  be able to tell her that" chupame la verga" But later on i realize that i CAN do it.

By the way i noticed something in one of my classes  i sat next to this Hot girl she has a boyfriend but i dident care that i was next to her i was doing my thing and who started talking to me ? the Girl next to me i naswerd and keeped on with the clase 5 min later she asked me something else and like that the whole clase and oall the other guys folowing her game i was like strange im not folling in to that.
Conclusion i came up with les time you focuse on a hb they realize they try to get more  is that giving a cold shoulder