Starting to get the idea Being who i am.
I wanted to share with all you guys the next thing ive found out learning stuf from all of you
Ive started to be the way i am like showing the music i like not hiding it and showing that im not ashamed of it or caring about anyones oppinion and its working im loving my self feel good about it and girls seem to like it.
I find it Realy Interesting how the presure of the world people styles of grups that people are going with how it affects everyone in a way or another and they hide the way they realy are why becase there scard of what otheres will think or worse they cant admit that they dont like somethings (Cant acepte the way they are If you dont reaspect yourself how do you expct others to do it?)
Wanted to exprese my self
Take care alll.
You don't have to be ashamed to display your Britney Spears shirts in public. It is your choice in music. There are lots of HB's who grew up listening to Britney Spears. I used to have a Michel Jackson sticker on my car, until someone tore it off. I did not really like MJ I just thought it was super funny to have that sticker on my car.
Yeah its just like i think woww what will people think if i like this or that god F them who care showing that tipe of behavier of being my self girls love that as i can see old aCall me old fashiond call me Old i dont care i like it and thats it.
Its funny thow that girls see that and like it that you dint care waht people think i was allways woried about waht would people think girls found me nice but werent atractid to me jejej i think about it now and laght.
I think there has to be a balance. You can't be caution to the wind, everything be dammned and just do whatever you want or dress however you want. There's reasons why you need to dress in a acceptable manner. Clothes is part of how you show your higher value and how you make yourself interesting and desirable. I'm not one to quote the bible much, as I'm not religious at all, but there's something that always stuck with me it's from Corinthians: "When I was a child, I spoke like a child, thought like a child, andreasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up my childish ways." The way I see it, sure you can wear that Superman shirt everwhere but it would only get in the way of your progress. I'm in a headspace where I'm willing to try anything and give up anything in order to be sucessful with women. Because even if i have everything else in life, i feel this big gaping whole in the middle of my being. I never realized how many auto disqualifiers (this what i call the thing that one does that puts women off automatically) i carried on me, i would go days without shaving when i can't even grow a proper beard, I would not cut my hair and just have a huge mess on my head. simpsons t-shirts, wearing jean shorts to college, being fat. These all are things that hold you back so why do them. If you enjoy them so much do them on your own time but understand that you are not getting laid while doing them. (I have a huge comic book collection, it's in a closet) And of course it's superficial, but we all are. If you're not just go and meet a nive fat girl at a supermarket and get married.
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer .. in other words befriend the obstacle.
Maybe she's just jealous of the attention you are giving your target and she feels she also deserves some. So show her you're fun and get to know her a little as well. Couldn't hurt either case. Maybe as a shock tactic when you see her whispering to her friend in front of you, casually and smilingly say "Is she trying to tell you how much fun I am?" or something like that, just make it positive, cocky, and a little funny.
My 2 cents.
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer .. in other words befriend the obstacle.Maybe she's just jealous of the attention you are giving your target and she feels she also deserves some. So show her you're fun and get to know her a little as well. Couldn't hurt either case. Maybe as a shock tactic when you see her whispering to her friend in front of you, casually and smilingly say "Is she trying to tell you how much fun I am?" or something like that, just make it positive, cocky, and a little funny. My 2 cents.
-monkeymind
This is what I would of advised, the friend could just be seeking attention also... Or has this friend given you any IOI's as she might be attractted to you, and this his her way of expressing it, as she may be jealous of you and the attention you are giving to the HB!
eddiejoe Your wrte In anotherway whay can i do if im 100% sure that a hb frieand it puting sh..t on me by saying stuf about me to the hb?
shes baisicly tring to f it up im 100% sure about it what can i do to gain that hb and make her see that her friend is doing that.
-personalityeddiejoe
Easy dude, forget her and move on to the next target. There are too many women to be dealing with these kind of complications.
Thanks thats what i will do ^^
I will still keep going for other Hbs but could it be a test somekind of girl test to see how far i can go to get her.
