Ok, senior in high school, I started out watching the Pick-Up Artist when it came out, immediately fell in love with the show, opened up another side of me I never knew I had. Getting to the point, I have tried some of the little things I have learned, let alone remember. Such as, when I am in a conversation, I change directions I am facing to see if she "chases" me. Or another thing is bring up a name I called her 10 mins ago (which works fairly well may I add). But anyways, the name calling thing is the only thing that really works, is it me? Or are high school women not "ready"? I don't want to wait years before I can apply this knowledge, and I still don't want to be a virgin either ><. Any help would be useful, along with books.
High School Women
I have definitely noticed that with younger women, the game doesn't really apply. Well, I noticed certain things work. Like personality type games, or palm reading. But for the most part, just be outgoing. That's what I learned from my experiences anyway.
Oh and one important thing to remember: Don't be too harsh with the negs.
Oh, the name calling? Ha, I maybe said/say it once or twice, if that; during the specific day. I do understand when I am getting old with it. Like for starters, when the stop laughing and merely smerk. I got that que a while ago. Can you elaborate the personality type games and palm reading, I remeber the palm reading a little, I read it somewhere, your information is greatly needed/appreciated. I also want to thank You for responding, at the least.
-Brenden
Ok, just commenting on the topic I never really have a problem with talking, I talk alot, but I run outta shit to say......
little one liners
- (if she pulls out her phone)"So when are u gonna ask me for my phone #" If shes says never or what ever else "Thats good I would have given you the wrong # anyways"
- (if the ages come up) If she's yonger say " Aww your just a baby" If she's older say "Wow, me and you would never get along, I think you have a little to much experience for my taste" (make her guess your age)
Don't think negs, think flirty, trust and believe I'v payed dearly for negs; fights, arguments, lost friends, getting called an ass hole for not taking a girls picture for her and her friends......
Get little one liners and just add the Game Material in if you truely run outta shit to talk about....thats what I do!
THINK
-movies
-drama
-magazines
-the real world (mtv)
-role reversal is fun "I'm not that easy" When you give her your # or the other way around "this doesn't mean a piece of ass" From experience if she says this to you "Well thats good, because I wasn't gonna give you any"
-If she IOI's you, give IOI's back
-If she IOD's you, give IOD's Back
-Instant Messenger is a great way to pratice for responses to some material (but its not like the real thing)
Kino Kino Kino (the sooner the better) IMPORTANT!!!
-Look up Neil Strauss's ideas on conversation (string hook theory)
Finally the "game" works on everyone I mean everyone!
(look up these kinds of books below online if you can or go to your local book store to help)
DHV= Magic, Mind Reading, Social Games (Murder, Marry, Shag) is fun
(Magic Works VERY well)
Well, thank you. I will have to take some time to really read this some time.. I need advice, this one girl... I met her last year, and we pass each other a lot, and she always gives me a nice smile, so I go up and talk to her and WHAM!!!! All I get is major language, and by that I mean I get cussed out every time. I don't have a clue who she is now, but anyways, so she comes up to me and I am like "Did you come over here just to bitch me out again" and she was like "No, I came to ask you to Sadies" I am like AAAHHHH. Then without notice she says "Just kidding" and walks away. I want to get back at her!
You gotta make her jealous..... lol
Another thing just keep practicing and leave her alone for about 2 or 3 months (show her you've changed) then let her see you with another girl or having more fun then her!
Then laterr....... Tell her "OMG, I just met your twin the other day, damn I really thought she was you for a sec until I discovered she wasn't as mean as you" tell this girl about how you came up this stranger and mistakingly thought she was her........ does that help!
(sry if it doen't make sense!)
IM me randywebb40@aol.com im not 40 it used to be my old football #
You should use MySpace to meet girls, young girls love that shit.
i agree with randy. ignore her for abit and have more fun. u have to make her realize that if she doesnt act fast shes gunna lose ur forever. u are the prize not her.
High school is kind of a different ball game...But id have to say one important thing to factor in would be your social circles.
Everyone knows who is dating who in high school and who did what.You cant just have a one night stand in high school.without even the chess team knowing.
Another difference is Place the difference between talking to a girl during or after school is you might be limited in time before class starts again or she has to get home.Thats why you need to have events or things to do. Basically my advise be funny during whatever class you have with her but try to approach her after school keep her around in conversation then suggest a bounce to your place ,a smoothie shop or something close by or to another event .
If you are meeting them out of school maybe at the mall you really got to drag her away from friends and make her feel comfortable with you.
Younger girls are more fragile and naive. Be careful with negs, because even the hot ones are often insecure, and not 'good' at flirting yet, they can take it personally.
They are more receptive to direct game as well. They are more used to guys being really direct with them than older women, because people get more reserved later in life. But that means the competition is weaker - if you can do some slick direct game, they will really go for it.
One key is learning to be aloof - don't look at them when they pass, act as if you don't even notice them. Be social, and talk to everyone you can - don't just try to hang out with the cool kids, just be someone that everyone gets along with. Being nonchalant and having social proof is everything in high school. Just don't supplicate to anyone - especially females! Try to hold the frame that you could have any of them and they would be lucky if you did. Date girls - you may have to start with some average-ish looking girl - but that will help you move up. Date a HB6, and you can attract some 7's or 8's, and trade up. The main thing is to let people know that you have a love life, that having a GF is congruent with who you are. Don't try to hold out for the 10's like I did - you will end up as an orbiter with no sex life most likely. You want people to find out you are sexually active. You can make up stories about girls you met outside of school if you are careful - just make sure you don't get busted lying! If you can start a rumor about thinking you got a girl pregnant, or about some girl you met over the summer that gave you head in your car or something - just do not overdo it! Make it believable!
And don't get caught up wishing you could get with the head cheerleader who is also prom queen. In just a couple of years, you are going to look back and realize how many smokin hot teen girls you let slip by because they weren't the 'popular' girl. When you are old like me, you will realize that high school is just a playground full of horny little chicks, a good portion of whom are really attractive but just don't have the self esteem and weird attitude that combine to make a girl need to be the center of attention. That shy girl with the pretty face in math class is hot - so grab her before some jock figures out that she is a total catch. You will never again be in a position where you can legitimately bang underage girls - but if you have a penis, after high school you will look back and wish you had put it in every one of those girls you currently think of as a 6. One way to date 'up' is to get girls in younger classes. Since you are a senior, you automatically have a good bit of clout with the underclassmen - the age thing is like a head start. A guy who can score an HB7 senior can probably score an HB9 sophomore.
The people you hang out with count for a lot in high school. Be friends with everyone that you can. Don't fall into that trap of being the a-hole alpha guy who beats up nerds, and gains by lowering other people's value. Be a true alpha male and bring everyone's value up.
How you dress is important, too. Dress like JDog! Mainly, wear outfits that have a consistent overall style. Make a little bit of a character for yourself. Wear some attention-grabbing clothes, but don't go too far - only wear what you can pull off. You DON'T want to be that weird guy in bondage pants and a fedora who is clearly screaming out for attention. Be a little different, but in a way that does not make you a pariah. Unless you are into goth girls and chicks who cut themselves ![]()
Have parties if you can. Throwing a party is THE best way to get laid by high school girls! When you are the host, your value skyrockets, and the logistics are on your side big time. When throwing parties in HS, though, you have to be careful. Don't advertise it as a huge bash - I learned to never even call them parties, just a 'get together of some friends,' or 'some people are coming over to hang out.' That way, if only a few people show up, you don't look lame. Announce the get together on the down-low to people who have value, but you think would show up. Take them aside and say 'I don't want a ton of random people showing up, but you're pretty cool, so it's ok if you come over.' - something like that. You want to project that it is an exclusive event, and they are lucky that they qualified to be invited. Try for an even mix of guys + girls, and play some drinking games. As the night goes on and people get more hammered, amp up the sexuality by starting a game of strip poker or even (LOL) spin the bottle or something. Get online and find some really unique and cool party games. Have shit at your place that DHV's you.
Overall, in HS you want to have the frame of a really cool, laid back guy - one who gets along with everyone, but is very selective with who he allows to be in his inner circle.
Good luck, and tag a fine-ass teenage slut for me!
Okay my trip to D-town,PA was cool my buddy banged like two 17 year olds and three 18. hes 20 so its cool. Anyway hanging around them and their friends was fucking lame. But I got some tips ill drop later