Saturday night was my first gig as a DJ in a local club here in Scotland, one of the reasons I'm delighted I got this gig is that I knew the extra time spent in field being able to work my game and observe patterns that are succesful from a high value position would go a long way to developing my game.
So I started at 9pm - I made a point to talk to everybody I seen, even just small talk, to warm up and get myself in a good frame to eliminate any extra anxiety that could arise from this being my first night spinnin the tunes! I introced myself to all the bar staff in what i felt was a very confident, cool way, keeping good eye contact, smiling, looking relaxed and as if I was having fun.
Throughout the course of the night I had several Girls come up opening me asking to play a tune for them etc, some stunners, some...mingers! haha
One HB8 came up and asked for a tune i didn't know, so i told her to pretend that she was on X factor and that i was going to be simon cowell, and gave her a spare mic that wasn't being used and got her to sing it, which she did, her voice for terrible. Dont give up your day job Luv! Anyway i started kino and had great eye contact, teasing her like mad until i had to go and concentrate on my next mix so said seeya. About 20 mins later she came back up to say that she and her pals were away to another club and asked for my number, I reframed and took her number and told her I would text her.
Later on my drunk little sister who's back from Glasgow as she's not back at Uni til Feb bounces in with her 2 pals and comes straight up to the DJ box to see me, she nearly falls on the steps on the way up - haha, anyway she introduces me to her 2 buds, one is maybe a 7, the other is a TIDY from Belfast who she works with, Shes an indie-rock chick which i have a big thing for, her accent is sexy - I would say shes a 9. She teased my little sis about how she thinks the dj was hot and i could tell she was attracted to me and not just teasing my little sis! Great IOI.
I ran a few routines on her, guessed correctly that she was thinking number 3 between 1-4 (after her gasp of shock that i guessed the number right, all i said was "see, i told you i was psycic, which looking back, wasnt great, any ideas on anything else to say after it?) I might keep the "see i told you so" part, then say something like well if you buy me a drink I'll tell you the lottery numbers for sat and we can split the money blah blah blah and lead into a role play about going on holiday to somewhere exotic like the caribbean. Anyway, great kino throughout, escalating progressively, culminating in me playing a tune which lasted 6 mins and gave me enough time to sneak on the dance-floor, woo her even more then, and number close. Well in wee man! Turns out she has a boyfriend, which she never mentioned at all, and she text me this morning saying what a great night she had and how mad my little sis is.
After the club shut at 2 I was pretty done in and tired, so I decided 2 head home to chill for a bit as I had a game of Football on Sat afternoon and was tired, on the way home a girl i have been gaming drove past and gave me a big wave and smile, game on? I text her asking for a lift, she never text back til i was wet and cold and home, I busted her for that in my next reply, and within that text, I said that i couldent be bothered texting, and I would prefer to phone her for 5 mins before i go to sleep (time constraint plus less chance of her saying no to me coming round when i mentioned it on the phone, rather than text.)
I knew there was a good chance of it being on, as she just lives 2 mins walk from me, I talked random crap to her, which she loved and laughed at, we agreed for me to come round and talk about what we were gona do in my coaching session which she was going to help me with. (This way i was coming round for a reason which would allow sex to "just happen")
I got there and she was looking really hot, we went to her bedroom and she stuck a dvd on then went and got me a drink of water and brought up some grapes which we had some fun with, I felt I did OK with her, we made out a few times, had a couple of play fights, tickled each other blah blah blah. We were having fun but i was getting HORNY. I kept talking while feeling her tits, keeping her mind off the fact i was doing it, when i slipped my hand to her pussy, she wasnt up for it! Dealing with LMR is a part that i have not really studied and know little about in my 3 months into all this stuff, so this week I aim to get some good info from you guys. First time she rejected it I freezed her out, saying it was fine and we went back to talking as opposed to forcing the issue and being mad at her which i probably would have done until recently, then i used the how many different types of kisses can we do routine, which was good, we got 8,during the last one, the really fast and furious one where she was groaning a little, i went for it, she allowed me to feel from the outside but when i went in she said NO!! aargh! lol
I decided I wasnt going to go for the fuck again and went back to talking, i mentioned that we were not going to have sex tonight, and that we would be good mates, but that I also wanted to have a sexual relationship with her, she said she didnt object to this and seemed to agree that we will have sex - this set a good frame for following meet ups and keeps her perception of me as sexual, I think!
I think I also may need to build some more comfort with her, and maybe some more tips on building intense sexual chemistry that will take me past my issue with her which is escalating smoothly for the full, fuck close, I need to learn more about seduction so any techniques or literacy on this is much appreciated.
We have agreed to see each other Friday this week - time for me to get to work!
As I am new, i may be unknowingly making errors here, if you notice any,or have questions to get to roots of potential problems i may have, I invite you to ask some questions which i can answer,some constructive criticism would be much appreciated.
Cheers Lads - All the best from Bonnie Scotland and have a good week!
