Just post a reply here under this same topic. That way we will have one Topic thread with all the introductions, rather than several hundred separate 1 post introductions.
Cheers.. J!
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Introduce Yourself Here!
Hey I'm Jas,
23 year old from Northern Ireland.
Previously loved day game, but I managed to stay in a relationship for 2 years so I've lost the edge a good bit.
Just wanting to get back on the scene.
Particularly dislike night clubs or loud pubs as girls find it difficult to hear what I'm saying (perhaps I should articulate my words more.)
I'm still at University (studying medicine) so there are a lot of good looking girls about... Although some (particularly fellow medics) have big fish in small pond syndrome.
Just wanted to introduce myself, and wish jdog all the best with the website.
Jas
Hey there Jas.. it's great to see someone on here from Northern Ireland!
I find it interesting that when we are in relationships that many of us (women included) slowly lose some of the characteristics that attracted our partners in the first place. Men will stop flirting, and both men and women are more likely to let themselves get out of shape.
My belief is that it is extremely important for a man to continue to flirt with other women when in relationships. I don't mean to hardcore game other women with the intent of getting them into bed. No.. I mean that the process of flirting, and receiving good responses is important for our masculine self esteem. This in turn keeps our flirtatious attitude more buoyant, which maintains our desirability to our current girlfriend or wife. Very subtle flirtatious exchanges between you and another woman in front of your partner has the effect of making her more attracted to you. Overdoing it of course can lead to unnecessary feelings of jealousy or insecurity.. never go overboard with this when in a relationship.. perhaps unless you are dating a stripper who emotionally needs constant drama, and a sense of loss.. tho why you'd want to punish yourself in such a relationship I don't know.
So flirting in front of your partner in this way acts as a gentle reminder if you like of what she was attracted to in the first place, and let's her know why she currently finds you attractive. The analogy would be how your girlfriend works out to look good for you (men should work out also.. look good for her!) and as you are sitting in a coffee shop one afternoon she stands up to go to the restroom.. you find yourself checking out her ass.. nice! Well that reminds you why you possibly were first attracted to her, and yep.. you are still attracted now.
Since you are studying medicine I'm going to tell you a little story about confidence.. I was going to save this, and might still write an article around it. I was recently in England, and an old friend is now a doctor in private practice. We are both older, and should be more calm and confident by now.. but he seemed noticeably more so than I remember from my last visit 5 years earlier.
I asked him what changed. He said sometimes you have to do something that you find so uncomfortable, and are so nervous doing, but afterwards you realise it wasn't that bad after all. He went on to tell me how during his residency (being a medical intern here in the US) he had to ask women prior to their surgery, "While you are unconscious, having your surgery would it be ok if we put a camera inside your vagina to teach some of the resident doctors."
I WAS in shock hearing this.. then he calmed me down letting me know how it was a teaching hospital, so it was expected, and also that the camera was to film the surgery that they were having in that area. It wasn't like they were filming in the nether regions while doing an appendectomy!
Surprisingly enough most of the women he asked were calm about it, and said it would be fine. So this experience of having to do something that he found so uncomfortable, and then being able to do it, nothing bad actually happening. He discovered that he was then able to do other things with less fear, and less nervousness.
Hi there,
I'm Beloved, 23 years old, and engaged to a (hot!) girl, planning to get married.
Between what jdog said in the above post about people keeping up skills regardless of their relationship status, and wanting to become a really good wingman for my friend Jas, I think this forum looks like the place to be.
I'm also studying medicine at uni, (really looking forward to finishing that!) and am an avid daygame fan (if now relegated to wingman.)
I have to confess to a definite interest in NLP. Fascinating stuff!
Was just wondering what you think about using these skills in other social settings and for other purposes?
So far I've found when you have an air of confidence- even in buisness and when doing simple things like normal shopping, people treat you with greater respect and can make situations much less awkward. I've even used it to my advantage in difficult interviews.
Loving the website so far jdog,
Beloved
Hello All,
I'm Infamy, 36 yrs of age, hometown is Liverpool which Jdog knows well so I believe... Presently working in Manchester, UK.
Only recently come across the world of the PuA, about to start reading "The Game by Neil Strauss" which have been told is excellant, just finishing of watching the first season of "The Pick Up Artist" all I have to say is WOW just blows me away. Respect where respect is due Jdog very impressed!
As just started to learn the skills and starting to put what i have learnt in to practice, in social surroundings and even work where my confidence is showing, people are starting to pay more attention to me, its a nice feeling which just boosts your confidence more.
Great site Jdog, keep up the great work!
Infamy
Hi, Eduardo here from San Juan, Puerto Rico. 25 years old. I was in a 3 year relationship with this fantastic girl that ended because of distance problems. That was 8 months ago and I still haven't gone out with anyone since then. I've established a plan to get my life back on track, I've lost 40 pounds in the last 5 months, got a haircut, got a new car, new clothes, but there's still something missing. I'm having a specially hard time with approach anxiety and with keeping a girls interest once I have her number or msn address. I think I telegraph too much interest, like for example on the msn I'm always the first one to talk. I'm also having a hard time dealing with rejection. Here's a typical night for me: I go out, see a girl I like and approach without thinking, get blown off because I don't have any plan at all. Then proceed to get depressed, and start overthinking everything afterwards. Then I start drinking and when I´m plastered I hit on girls again and fail miserably. This has happened every single weekend in the last 4 weeks. This is what I have to work on. Thanks for the site, it's amazing.
Hey Eduardo.. thanks for joining in the discussion here.. it's great to see that you have been working on yourself! ..tho you know what I'm going to say right off the bat, don't you? STOP getting plastered when you go out! While 1 or 2 drinks might loosen you up and lower inhibitions, actually being drunk and hitting on women is a BIG turnoff. I know.. I've been there.. and you know it's not working also. I saw that you commented on my newsletter audio on approach anxiety.. I'm hoping you'll try those things out.. it may take some time to start seeing the results, as it's the subtleties in the way we communicate that makes the process effective... being indirect and removing the outcome (initially) are good ways to start getting better responses, and building some positive momentum.
Gotta admit I'm a little starstruck here. I think you're awesome. Thanks for replying you really inspire me.
Hey guys, I go by the name of "M." now instead of M4gmatic. I've been in the community for a couple of years now. I hail from the Great Plains States in the U.S., but tend to do a decent amount of traveling.
I jumped into the community to expand my choices of women. I seemed to be caught in a dark place where I was only attracting (and not approaching) negative women into my life, this was after coming out of a 3 year relationship. The community has taught me a lot and given me some strong relationships for life.
I was hoping Jdog would get something going after having seen him on T.V. with Mystery and Matador. Out of the group I found Jdog to be what seemed to be the most sincere of the group. Anyhow, thanks for getting your site up and running finally.
-M
Hello everyone!
Im Daniel 23 years old from Sweden. I have bin in the seduction community for like 2 years now and learned alot about myself and of course women.
Before i started with this i was a very shy and lonely guy that almost never did go out to any clubs or tryed to get in contact with women. And if women tryed to talk or flirt with me i was so scared that i always screwed it up and instead of becoming their boyfriend i became a friend and never ever anything more that that.
The i found out about the seduction community and PUAs. I can say it totally changed my life.
Today i am a happy and a very social guy. I have found a beatiful girlfriend that i love very much. And i have also started to teach some guys here in Sweden my techniques for free.
So why am i here?
I am here to continue grow as a person and learn some tips and tricks from JDOG and everyone else on this forum.
/D
Welcome to the forum Daniel, enjoy your stay and hopefully we can learn some things from yourself also!
Hello,
My name is Franklin, I'm 29 & I live in Pine Bluff, Arkansas.
I got into PUA after watching season 1 of VH1 "The Pick up Artist" & was really inspired by JDog, since I am 5'7 & heard it would hard for me to get women due to my height. Now after seeing JDog, anything is possible. I would like to learn picking up women in the daytime since I"m mostly a day person, & attract the women I'm attratced to.
I'm Brady, and I plan on stealing Jdog's hair style. Not really but I fucking love it. I've only read the mystery method so far... I'm working on improving my game with women, and improving my lifestyle as a whole. I was in a long term relationship with someone who I loved... that bitch slowly sucked the life out of me. It's my fault for letting her do it...
I moved out... and our relationship didn't last much longer. when we broke up I was so sad, but it's the best thing that's ever happened to me. I have to thank people like Mystery, Jdog, and Neil Strauss for introducing me to the most awesome stuff ever. I don't always number close women, and I haven't slept with more than one in the past month... but I'm having so much fun using this stuff it's ridiculous. FLIRTING WITH WOMEN IS FUN.
I'm going out tonight to a huge ass party in Phoenix. 4 kegs and alcohol... WOMEN! TONS OF WOMEN! I'm going to have a blast.
Hello! My name is Alec and I'm a senior in college. I was first exposed to social dynamics after watching the first season of pickup artist on Vh1. Little did i know that only months later would i be purchasing books and reading loads of information to learn the "game." I've fumbled around with lots of different approaches and I feel the methods taught by Justin seem to be the most natural.
My interest in the "game" does not stem with unhappiness, but with the motivation to get out of the "friend zone" with women.
For fun i enjoy playing guitar and golf.
-Alec
Hello, my name's Andrea (male!) and I'm from Italy. I would really define myself a TFC (EXP(totally)
frustrated chump). I'm moving to the US in fall for Ph.D. in Math and do not have in Italy any form of social life. The fact is that if I start breaking the ice, I then get talkative and quite comfortable... but I just feel I do not yet have the right mindframe for opening sets and start sarging... I'm now going to do a bootcamp in Bologna to see if I can work on my anxiety... Any advice for getting into the right mindframe?
Absolutely you know when you go to the store and you pay for something at 7 11 you almost say "Hows it going" or "Have a nice day" put yourself in situtations where you have to talk or call someone you feel comfortable talking to on the phone; family, friends, co-workers, teachers or whoever and for stories I suggest keeping a journal, day two day... or everyother day when u write in it get into detail like your talking to someone or DHVing for a girl.... like if woke up that morning and ate breakfast... How did you feel when you woke up? What made you feel that way... "DETAILS"
Then when your talking to someone "OMG I woke up feeling like shit this morning"... they will answer "really or why?" ether way tell them why. Always think "why" then lead into other conversations if it doesn't work think about wat happened after u woke up talk about favorite cereal and if u set at home and watch tv all day ask if they have seen that show if they say "ya or no" tell them why u asked.... Do you see where Im going with this?
P.s. Keep Journals for story telling... lol
Whats up Folks!
My name is Jeremiah or call me Primata.I live in Tempe, Arizona and im now 29 yrs old. I was introduced to the PUA scene from a friend i met travling thru South America 3 months ago.when he seen that i have a charm for talking to the ladies, he gave me the Mystery Method book to read and i was flabbergasted to know that pick-up is like some sort of art and science. He directed me here to this forum and now i am reading some of the material here. DAMN i wish i would of known about these communities years agooooo. Now i can plug these tools into my own game and become a better ladies man. I hope there are some arizona people here that i can meet up with and PU some girls around the valley. I live in colombia too and travle to california and las vegas a lot.
your friend
Jeremiah ( Primate )
My Name is Pedro,
but you might just call me dompedro.
I'm actually a 21 year old AFC from northeastern Brazil.
My history is not so different from other guys out there. I have been clueless about girls my entire life, maybe because I was so shy, I had low self-steem. I've been learning this for almost a year now. The thing that was a turning point for me was a TV show on cable about relationships. Searching on the internet, I finally start finding out about the game, mystery, and the other guys out there.
I have lost many fears, expanded my confort zone, talked to girls, have female friends. I thought all girls where like saints. Now I know they're just people.
I'm not happy yet. The only relationship I had last year was like a 3 month girlfriend, but I didn't even had sex with her.
Now I have got A NEW HOPE. I've found this guy: J-DOG a Electronics Engineer like myself (I'm just a student). So if he can do it, I guess I can too!
Welcome to the group, a girlfriend for 3 months and no sex? From what I have been reading not having sex with a girl is almost as bad as having sex too soon. You need to build that sexual attraction with her to keep her interested, or she will just move on to the next guy.
I can't say I have been there, but I know guys that do the same thing. They want to seem like a nice guy and not make the relationship about sex, but the girl actually wants sex as bad as the man. I have the opposite problem. I don't build the relationship.
Hey everyone
My friends now call me Hamilton,Im 21 and live in pennsylvania.
Never had a serious relationship with women just always seen as the best friend. a few months ago I came accross the show pua on vh1. For the first few months watched the show and thought I figured everything out...but over the last four months ive read the Game,Rules of the game and im now onto jdogs reading list currently waiting for social intelligence by Goleman to arrive. I have noticed a huge improvement in my social circles and my approach to social situations. and everytime I get a number from a hot girl I add ten bajillion years to my life.But I really need help on some left over habits and ways to improve.
