I am 19. I still have problems because of age difference. TDT

Hey,

I appreciate these questions are for jdog, but are other members allowed to post replies?

I'll just ask a few quick questions....

Hyunsoo, at what level would you say your game is at? And how old and attractive are these targets you are talking about?

Jas

Of course!! I seek for everyone's advice. :)

Answers for your questions.
1. My level of game is low.
2. I am 19. Girls were around 21~23. And I wouldn't say they are like 10s but they were still fairly attractive may 7 or 8.

Hello again hyunsoo,

Thanks for the reply.

My opinion is this...

You seem to view your age as a disadvantage, but it can actually be used as a DHV.
Depending on what age you feel confortable dating, girls of 16/17/18 will be looking up to you, particularly from a student point of view.

You say you are in college, so remember that these girls in the years below you will automatically give you a DHV just for being ahead of them.

This can also lead to indirect openers say for example in the library... you can offer to help with their studies, or comment about the book she has?

As you say your game is low, it would be much better and more confidence building to target this age group. Keep in mind that if you do get friendly with a female student, you can use that to meet other friends of hers etc etc and use her friendship as leverage towards other girls.

I'm not saying that you should forget about older girls, but perhaps you should give it a go with slightly younger girls, or at least girls your age. Nothing is impossible, but speaking from personal experience I found that at age 19, girls of 17 and 18 seemed to give me DHV for just being older.

That being said, not that long ago I was walking along the street (in a little costal town flooded by people) with my friend. He was 27, I was 22. Two HB7's stopped us and gave us their numbers. After our 1st date I found out that she was 25, however she already knew that I was 22.... Its a strange world!

Jas

Thank you Jas!!!!

Em... Like you said, I should first start to look for younger girls.
Any special places you particularly liked when you were 19?

Any special places you particularly liked when you were 19?

-hyunsoo

As I have said in another post I didn't like night game, so I stayed away from clubs etc, but I was still aware of the ones that had younger crowds say 17-19, (although this might be different in America, is the drinking age 20?)

I also had an idea of which specific coffee shops and sandwich bars the younger crowds would go to.

Really most places I would go to now.... but just ones that seem to be taken over by 17 to 19 year olds.

Here's a few randoms....

Coffee Shops
Sandwich Bars
Shopping Centres
College Campus
Gyms (This is where I met my long term relationship)
Sports events - Here in Northern Ireland a lot of girls will go in big groups.
Parties - I particularly liked house parties as you were often introduced to everyone. This then removes AA as you don't need a "reason" to start a conversation.

Thats the main ones I can think of....

I also see that in your first post you said about girls asking your age....

Does this happen often? (Basically I'm asking do you look young?)

Jas

I am not sure. some people think I look old.
But most people say that I look young.
Maybe it is more like the way I behave.......
And, I kind of have young, innocent eyes.

However, when I was in Korea, one of the first questions they asked me was, "How old are you?" (regardless or day game, night game.)

Anyway, I am going to do some day gaming in US now. Maybe I will get different reactions.
I will post the field reports soon.

Peace.

Take advantage of the fact that you're young and hit on younger girls.

Hey,

Sorry about that, I understand what you mean. It might be best to remove my post?

Over here that age difference would be completely normal so the thought hadn't even occurred to me.

Just to clarify..... In no way do I suggest targeting a minor!