Okey is this better ,
I meet this girl that my mates girlfrieand at the time introduced me to and that same night i kinod and kissed closed she asked form my cell and the next day my msn.
After some days talking on the msn we got to meet up we were going to meet up all 4 of us me my mates his girlfrieand and her frieand aand me but my mate and his girl couldent go in the end she said if we could still go and so we did.
We meet up and gave us 2 kisses like frieands i knod and kissed r and we went back to my place but my parents were in and she dident want to go in, since she got uncomftable about that so we dident get to go to my bed.
We left and did other sexual things together then we both went back home the next day after that she was flaky about meeting up like saying shes with someboy and she isent shure to meet up but as frieands it would be graet un till i said to her i wanted more then that so i did my best to make her feel that chemestry towoards me by busting her balls.
After a coulple of days telked about meeting up and how fun it would be i was showing her if shes with me she would have lots more fun.
And all of a suden 2 days ago she told me to meet up for next friday to party since she couldent this friday. (This was on thursday) ((Shes the one who asked to meet up on that day))
Thats basicly it.
But, yes there is a but to this topic we had I knew that someone was saying bad things about me or something about me towords her at that time my mate was dating her best frieand that i found out and so did he that his gf was in to me and how do i know? She said so infront of him.
Not much after that They broke up and shes flirting with me and she says that she isent.
I think shes saying stuf about me to her frieand or somethings going on.
P.s:I dont like my mates frieand and if i did i wouldent date her since its my mates ex.
I hope you guys can understand it now ^^ please tell me so. cheers
Im in a strange situacion with a girl what is going on?
I'm not an expert, but I'll try to help.
Some thoughts:
Part 1 - first date
I remember hearing Style say that you should "Meet the girl at your place, give her a tour, and talk a bit. The purpose of this is to make her comfortable with your place.
*Then you leave and do cool stuff*.
When you return, your place will probably feel much safer.
If you do lots of venue changes / different things, then there will be "time distortion" and it will feel like you've spent more time together than you really have. Once you finally come back to your place, this should help put her more at ease.
Part 2 - buyer's remorse
If she is saying that "she is with someone" etc, I have the suspicion that you did the sexual stuff too soon. You should have built yourself up more, perhaps *teased*, but not much more. Pretended to kiss her, then wink at her and back off. Maybe a little bit of making out towards the end. Done some push-pull, etc.
I'm not an expert at this stuff, but fundamentally, I think buyer's remorse (her feelings of regret) are because you didn't spend enough time making her want you and/or building enough comfort. Don't only be silly - also be serious about the important things in her life, encourage her to tell you personal things so she feels more bonded with you.
Part 3 - Jealousy plotline
While I'm not sure how to do this, I suspect if you could get them both out together with you, and you could be entertaining / interesting / etc., then it would encourage them to fight over you. This would further raise your value with the girl you are interested in.
I'd recommend you somehow coordinate a group get-together. Invite the girl you are interested in, her best friend, and one other person (a friend of yours). Then, make sure the other person cancels at the last minute :)
Also, make sure you are fun and entertaining.
Best,
David
P.S. I don't know how to fully encourage the jealousy plotline - JDog, if you could give further advice about how he could set things up so he really encouraged the 2 women to compete, I'd love to hear that too.
David
Thank you
Ive got to tell you the latest thing that happend okey my mate called me up when i was with some girls telling me that hes had an argument with his ex and that she says shes not in to me and stuf like that well they had a fight about it.
Okey i said t him look we meet up tomorow and me will go to sarge so we did and had chat about what happend.
We went in to town that over hear there was a party so i used my day game and who do we see, its the hb i like with some frieands i talked to all 3 of them dident care about anything at all, made her laght teased her and when i said something to her i looked at my mate and then i got her hand and just let it go and said good girl, and she was like hmm okey laght and smiled at me and blushed like i allways get her like that.
Then i made the conversatcion go the way i wanted like for example i said to her we got to do that thing we said of going up to some stranges with a orange juce with out having any alcohol and she said no im not goign to do it with out drinking were going to go to this place if i got to go by my self i will and i just laght and said yeah your will be going by yourself.
So i got her to tell me what i wanted and at that point my mate was grate he said so are you 2 meeting up ? and she said instantly yes on friday.
I said after that that we had to go and so did they so i gave 2 kisses to her frieands and the hb i like gose and says well i will give you 2 kisses and im looked at her and said yeah and left.
forgot to say 1 thing since they were giving sweet stuf at this place its sounds like kiddy lnd i know she had and she said to me with out me knowing that if i wanted and gave me i was like ah cool thanks .
